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Went camping :cloud9: with some friends recently and i met this older guy who lives locally. He asked me out on a date, i thought, wow nice one especially as it been ages since i have been on a date, and here was this guy asking me out when i have been through the wars recently and was super messy from days of enjoying long nights by the camp fire :bounce_ci . Anywayz I was well pleased and got all excited and shite… :oh_god: , there was me hoping that life was gonna throw me some roses for a change :bounce_g: , but damn i got back from a date from hell last night and boy do i regret that this guy lives locally. He told me that he had a drinking problem but flippin heck i think he should have mentioned he was proppa schitzo :crazy_fre . I have been to parties in London where i have partied all night on my own with a bunch of strangers and some pretty dark characters but i can honestly say that i have felt safer there than i do in my own street. I feel like such an ass for being so blown away by the offer of a date 😥 . and not keeping my usual guard up. Damn i think i need to find myself a dog for some of that unconditional love and protection :bounce_g: . Peace.
yeh…itsa cunt when you think lifes looking up and it doenst quite work out. At least this one will make you think again and look out…I mean your not really old in todays world, hell my dads 45 (checked your profile so hes at least a decade older than you) or something and hes back in the dating game…with a fairly (yes i know its disgusting but true) active sex life. Your luckier than me I’ve been doing really well on the relationship front, so well I’ve managed to get fucked over royally three times by one girl in a year, once by another and have just discovered my amazing reputation as a bit of an ego boost for hot girls with ugly boyfriends. Anywho no point pissing an moaning about it…I’m not looking for anything serious anyway and if they want a guilty conscience then its up to them.
sounds proper shit, irie! hope some good luck your way comes (tao knows you deserve it!) :bounce_b:
i’ve been havin some luck recently, my lady split up with me (long story, and quite boring) a few months ago, and two days ago, she took me back! yippee! i’m glad i dont have to do the whole dating thing, it is a total fucking minefeild. i always end up going for well fit girls, then realising they are as dappy as they come. theres nothing worse thatbeing stuck with some vaccuous bint boring you about whats on telly and what shops sell what, and what’s “cool”. actually iries date sounded much worse. :crazy_fre
what doesnt kill ya makes ya stonger, so you must be popeye-tastic!
:horay: tonnes of luck beamed to the irie lady! :horay:
I had a really succesful blind date recently, sorry to hear yours didn’t go well Irie. Chin up though, eh!
you ladies man h! :ty_ty: 😛
Hardly! Having said that I’d never been on a blind date before so I’m pretty chuffed it went well…
mus be a bit of a shock on a blind date….my mums been on a few and says theyre all boring old geeks….and im pretty sure you dont quite fit into that category.
Not really old …. haahaa…ummm lol I am happy with my age :weee: i can still dance all night to techno so :cloud9: but thank you Elretardo87 :biggreen: I certainly will think twice next time. I dont now if its healthy to have your said reputation, i know your young so i wont :rant: but be good to yourself. :rolleyes: 🙂
USE -sounds proper shit, irie! hope some good luck your way comes (tao knows you deserve it!) what doesnt kill ya makes ya stonger, so you must be popeye-tastic!
Use -thank you, i am glad to hear that things have worked out for you. Popeye-tastic :lol_teeth yer i’m well :crazy_diz :question_ what does tao mean…
Site -I had a really succesful blind date recently, sorry to hear yours didn’t go well Irie. Chin up though, eh!
Site- Cheers, i am glad to hear of your success, good luck to you and your new partner.
I know i am a naive gal as i have only been in 4 relationships and 2 of those total half my life. Most of my time here in the uk was spent in a reclusive relationship so i know i have loads to learn. I maybe naturally nutts but i’m proppa :shy: . I do think i am messy head when it comes to relationships cause i have been cheated on. Oh well we live and learn hey… and i think i am far better off forgetting about finding my soul mate and just party on :rolleyes: :obey: :omg: :bounce_fl
Thank you for all the kind thoughts :group_hug
lola… it all happened as your expectation went higher and higher after having this date proposal after a long time! What if you would have taken it as it is, you wouldn’t have been disappointed!
But cut the crap,right? It was just a part of your life. So just throw it out of your mind, perhaps you would have done so already!
Life begins from everywhere! so let’s party,babe! there are many dogs waiting for you.. go grab one of them :bounce_m:so let’s jump and say hiiii
Wow it’s nearly a year ago since i made that post, and i can now laugh at myself. How time flies when ya having fun:bounce_m: . I’m glad that i haven’t got into a relationship, i have enjoyed this time finding out about myself and learning to be happy on my own. Learning to love and accept myself for who i am hasn’t been easy but it’s great to have been able to let go and forgive past hurts. I really opened up to love not so long ago and what happened i got asked on 3 dates:surprised , pfffttt talk about a storm after a drought:omg: :crazy_diz yikes. I thought wow i could get to know them and choose who was gonna be really good to me, well they were all really wicked guys, and when it came to the crunch i couldn’t decide and it wasn’t fair on them so i asked them all to let me be. You gotta love life :bigsmile: . Party on :weee: :ar15: . Loadsa love out to you all:group_hug xxxxxxxx keep smiling and see ya out there.:flowers:
well done for taking the time to learn how to love yourself though:group_hug
if you cant love you for who you are; how can you expect others to?
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if you cant love you for who you are; how can you expect others to?
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Awww thank you :bigsmile: , yeah you know that :bigsmile: , it’s been amazing actually cause despite being in two long relationships where my ex’s cheated on me i have always had issues of not thinking very much of myself, i don’t regret being in those relationships cause they were good it’s just that i always lost myself living their lives which aint healthy. I am the happiest i have ever been and it feels great to know that i don’t need someone to make me happy just a bonus:horay: . Although i have never really agreed with it i have myself a shag buddy, i guess it’s better than sleeping with different people and being fustrated, but he told me this weekend he has fallen for me, problem is i don’t need rugs to have fun or party, and i dont wanna go down that route. Life hey ➡ things will work out for the better for sure :biggreen:
Beat this one lads lol!
Couple e months ago i split with ma ex of 2 years and had a nicer model lined up already too go!
However after going out 4 a drink with the new lass {decent night}
We kept in touch but she was always busy and never had anutha free min, then she asked me too a couple e gigs n shit but then let me down at the last min!
Whilst doin this she was telling people that she fancied me etc! wtf?
So last night i asked her out and her reply was i dont ken how e can fancy me wen u hardly ken me?
Then stated that i wouldn’t like to gan out with her cause she is moody when tired and also cause she is a clean freak!! wat the hell wtf i was raging like!
The way i c it is that u ken nobody that well when u first start cin them and the excuses were crap
Also she told people she fancied me and also gave me her number without me asking!
The worst thing bout it is that she is so fukn hot lol
wat do yall think e that then?
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