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I think im probably really making it hard for myself to find a g/f. Its a pain in the arse because i do drugs quite regularly and that ‘aparantly’ that makes me a less attractive b/f for someone. anyone else face these problems? or am i jsut a looser? (no wait that cant be).
Oh yea and hi im jack
peace and love
party on dudes
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jack
I don’t think it makes it any harder to be honest unless you are a proper crack/smack junkie.
well im not that. and i dont intend to be… perhaps im just unattractive… who cares. lol
Do you mean physically attractive? Or are you just harder to live with on comedowns etc?
i mean on the comedowns… but also most girls i meet dotn seem to think that drug use is acceptable which is rather annoying
wouldnt worry about it m8, you wanna find a girl who likes you for who you are and not how you have a good time. as for girls in your area not finding drug use acceptable its often the case that girls our age tend to think a hell of a alot of themselves (as is the case when im at school, but they seem to be more mature when they have left school as their not trying to constantly impress their peers) and wont go for anyone who isnt mainstream enough for them. Just hang in there and it will be ok trust me m8.:bigsmile:
i agree with wot raverbaby says, hang on in there!! i hav the same problem, i find most guys r critical of my lifestyle or maybe it intimidates them?hmmmmmm, neva mind ini im sure il find a gud un soon!!:horay:
i agree, i find it hard to make friends, and this is because im not mainstream! it used to really get me down. Now i dont care though, i just think that if they cant take me as i am then i prob dont wanna know them anyway! but yeah you will find as you get older it will get easier and then you will find someone!
This partly the reason why I split up with my last girlfriend, she wasn’t into the whole freeparty/subversive scene at all, she preferred clubs and coke. She didn’t like the idea of squatting or anarchists and when I quizzed her on what she thought being an anarchist was she didn’t have a clue. I wasn’t about to change my lifestyle i’m afraid so we both agreed on the split.
I’ll get there one day!
yea it used to really piss me off…. like the other week someone came up to me in the pub who i know from school and was just like ‘so what drugs are you doing tonight’ then called me a wanker and dondered off… i wasnt even high lol… oh well sod em… im sure when i get out of my little town to some more partys i shall meet better ppl! .. most of the judgemental people are the ppl who just get drunk and vomit on friday nights :P…
im not bitter.
you should come down to my village, i would be amazed to find people that arnt on drugs, some of the middle aged people smoke pot and a few of them love a few lines of charlie. as for the people my age then you would be hard put to find any of them that dont love pillz:bigsmile: or ket. sounds like its just a problem for the area your in.
probably… damn them and their small minded views! .. i mean i know loads of drug heads. and danc heads but most of them are male. and thats not my thing lol :head_bang
Oh yea and hi im jack
peace and love
party on dudes
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jack
Dont think it is harder to find a g/f for you,but you have to watch out…I found a guy who was taking drugs,i took a little at that time,he took a lot..After a period of time my i used more and more,i was embarresed to say no..but ofcourse,i cant blame others than myself,i just could have said no,but wasnt strong enough..:rant: Think i ruind 4-5 years of my life…But thats just me..When we split up i managed to stop my use of the hard drugs(not heroin,never touched that) but it wasnt easy…
man thats harsh angel. glad to hear your off the hard stuff… keep it up hun! im pretty strong minded on that kinda stuff… i dont do coke or crack and i dont think i could.. ive seen to many of my friends flats filled with crackheads… not a pretty site. i juts want someone who enjoys the recreational stuff and mind exploration side of things..
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P.S what do you mean by the hard stuff?
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