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Thanks for the positive energy. New age hippy beliefs right? I do love that but rationalwiki kind of destroys it like other such special belief systems. As for finding a lady let me assist you brother, I do have sound advice but I do believe you are of the dogma so let’s look at scripture

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“Forbidden to you are…married women, except those you own as slaves.” (Surah 4:20-, 24-) —- Do not go for married girls unless they’re your slave KEY RULE BRO!!! —- “Try as you may, you cannot treat all your wives impartially.” (Surah 4:126-) — You may have many women and some you can disrespect… not sure i’m liking the scripture but let’s continue —- “You shall not force your slave-girls into prostitution in order that you make money, if they wish to preserve their chastity.” (Surah 24:33-)….. Oh fuck this shit! “Seek out your enemies relentlessly.” (Surah 4:103-)

Theres plenty of women with respect I just think that the society we live in today is very open minded sexually so doing what you want can be percieved as loose morals, when really it is just someone doing what they want to do!

Just curious, has your view on who you’d be with changed? As in would they have to be muslim/believe in a god or could you be with an agnostic or atheist?

@Lshak 539850 wrote:

True, I guess. I just done agree with girls walking round int iChat’s and that kinda shit, even though I’ve always preferred older more mature women so that wouldn’t happen anyway.

Not really man, whoever/whatever happens is for a reason, I’m not going to single out a specific type of person, I’ve never really been interested in black women or Muslim Women who wear hajjabs, and I don’t think that’ll ever change. We in a very modern society and I’d still need a modernised partner.

Hang out in places where you think women whom are into the same things you are will hang out. I mean I don’t really know you so I can’t say where that would be, but just think if places where you can socialise with people and they’d have things in common with you (like an example in my case would be at a gig.)

Have you ever considered spirituality outside of organized religion ?

@korno 539855 wrote:

Almost sounds like you don’t have a lot of time for a woman in your life anyway at the moment man, i’d suggest not thinking about it or seeking it, it never seems to happen when you forcably seek it out, it’ll happen when it’s meant to and when you aren’t expecting it.

Solid advice, though I’d say that nowadays there’s still the whole expectations of men making the first move, usually. So while he shouldn’t “forcibly seek it out” he shouldn’t be entirely passive either. When you feel like you wanna chance it with a girl just invite her out to coffee or lunch or something like that to get a chance to talk more and learn about each other. Can’t really go wrong there.

@korno 539857 wrote:

Very important point, i personally feel like men give up too quickly (sometimes a girl can just play the chase for a while) And sometimes the guy although trying, hasn’t made their motives clear enough to the girl, we can sometimes just think the guy is a friend when in actual fact he’s chasing you.

Yeah you have to kind of communicate your feelings in a clear way (but usually not too direct, though that can work sometimes.) You just have to like…leave hints. Be flirty and stuff. Invite her out to places and make the move. You have to act reasonably quickly because if it becomes a drawn out affair even if she’s interested in you she’ll think you’re not really and then it will be too late, or she will lose interest.

With regards to your trainer, why not, go for it. Remember that unless you’ve cultivated a friendship relationship beforehand, the worst thing she can do is say no.

“I can see clearly now, the rain has gone.” 🙂

Well, if a Brit babe is too exhibitionist / “Immodest” for you, you can always import a Thai bride.

Just make sure it’s not a lady boy though.