Party Vibe

@Shakyamuni 977025 wrote:

Not gonna say anything inflammatory but I remember one time at Dual Diagnosis group on a mental unit where 2 fat chicks forced their way into the group. Anyways for us folks with actual addiction issues that shit was about laughable, we had an alcohol, a girl whose boyfriend had OD’ed and died and a lady who shot her BF in self-defense while they were on oxy and myself just coming back from a drug induced psychotic break. Anyways, one of the ladys was gigantic (like seat-belt extender fat) and told us about when she was addicted to diet pills in the 90’s and was super thin and then became addicted to eating, she passed my litmus test, the other women not so much, she just yammered on about her husband not being able to order her steak right at Outback when she went to the bathroom at the restaurant, grade A cunt for not knowing her place.

Nah people like that are not the people I’m talking about. Those bitches just want something to whine about. The whole over eating thing I have had issues with is like trying to fill a void and shit but no 12 step meetings for me – I just get my calories from beer and the occasional Subway sammich every now and then. I would rather just drink my beer. Those women are both cunts and they did not belong in that group with people who had hardcore drug addictions. Over eaters or food addicts need to be in a damn food addiction meeting – it’s a lot different than drugs. Nowadays I just do my drugs and drink and I’m fine with that. But yes, cunts they are.

@General Lighting 977035 wrote:

if it is any consolation, a German tabloid newspaper ran a competition to “Guess the weight of Angela Merkel” (not sure about the rationale behind it and TBH if the natives think its acceptable to treat their female politicians in such a way that its harder to judge immigrants for their recent behaviour).

I had noticed (when she was visiting Vladmir Putin) that she was a bit fuller figured (Mr Putins declared weight is 75 kilos although there may be some slight alteration to the figures as he is claimed to be 1,75m tall when both him and Frau Merkel are 1,65m tall and so am I).

Anyway the averaged answer for Frau Merkels weight were about 82(!) kilos. I think thisi is about the same weight as you are at present.

Which suprised me as I didn’t think she weighed that much and she didn’t look “fat” compared to Mr Putin; and both of them look after their health (Frau Merkel is often also seen doing healthy outdoor activities though last time she went ski-ing she went over and bust her leg).

it is perfectly normal and acceptable for a female of the same age/height during their youth to early middle age to weigh slightly more than a male for biological reasons (even if they do not plan to have children).

I’m pretty self confident but I am still working on losing the rest of this weight. My damn scale is broken so I have to buy a new one soon but as far as I know, I’m still losing judging by the way my pants sag. I don’t look too big but I am not my ideal weight with the BMI included. I looked like a model in high school and I know I can get back to looking that way even if it takes another 2 years. I’m not trying to convert anybody, I’m simply saying be happy with yourself and if you are bigger and happy, then rock on. I am happier being a smaller size and even being of average weight is fine with me if I can just get there. My whole thoughts on the thing are: just be happy with yourself and find self confidence by doing things that make you feel better. Like I said, I’m not promoting any eating disorders or “Oh you’re fat, you need to lose weight”, not at all. I am simply just saying that I am happy being smaller. I have met many people who like their size being big or small and are fine with it and that’s great. I think being happy is the most important thing you can be in life and however you do it is great as long as you aren’t hurting yourself or anybody else.