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Cuckold?
Ok, so I have been with my GF for over 4 years now and everything has been great for the most part. For the past year we have been living in different cities but still see each other a decent amount (1 or 2 weekends a month) and talk every if not ever other day.
Over the past several months I started getting a weird vibe from her. She has always had a lot of close guy friends which I've never been thrilled about but whatever. However, she has started talking about one in particular a lot which is weird cause I don't care and I don't want to constantly hear about "how cool" etc ____ is and I make it known that I don't want to hear about it. But now I've been noticing she talks to him a ton text/snapchat etc. --Like more than she does me which is very annoying.
The last time I went to visit her I stayed in to study and hang with her and it was my understanding that that was the plan for the night. Then around 9 she starts texting and then starts changing and says she going to her friends party just for a little bit. Assuming that meant "we" were going I said "well I kinda wanted to just hang with you and really need to study tonight". She responded yeah I know that's ok you just stay here and I'll go for a hour or so, it's _____'s birthday and I just need to make an appearance.
So she leaves and I stay there and hours pass and she's not back. After a while I started texting then calling and got no answers. Eventually she sends a vague incoherent text saying she will be back in 30 min (at about 1145-midnight).
At about 1-130 she still wasn't back and wasn't answering and I ended up going to bed shortly after. The next morning when I woke up she was making breakfast and her guy friends that she clearly likes was sleeping on the couch. It was totally awkward and he left right after he woke up. When I asked her about it/everything about the night before she claims she got back around two, she drove her friend home but he was locked out of his apartment so she said he could sleep on the couch at her place.
She claims she slept in bed with me but I know that it is a lie because I would've have woke up and then she switched her story to that she fell asleep on the chair in the living room while they were watching TV after they got back... Again I would have heard the TV and got up. That day we went to get lunch and two of her girl friends i have never met joined us. Upon being introduced one said to my gf "so this is the cuckold huh and chuckled" not knowing what she said I said What? and she said nothing giggling - it was really weird.
To wrap this up when I left town later that day and got home and I searched Cuckold and I'm still not entirely sure I get what it means but either way it doesn't sound good. I called her out on it and on all this bull shit with her guy friend and she claims she doesn't know why her friend said the cuckold thing and it must of been some joke or something (she basically made no sense) and that she never has done anythign with her guy friend and never will and she only wants to date me etc etc but she also was contradicting saying she wants to see where her friendship with that guy goes etc ... so IDK I'm like what F$%* does that mean. * Also, I recently have noticed she hardly ever wants to have sex when we are together----
Is she sleeping with this guy? am I a cuckold? is she trying to make me a cuckold?
WTF is a cuckold? What should I do? Should I do anything?
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June 27, 2015 at 12:16 pm
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problem with gf
having a gf for a while know and we tried having sex but still hurts her so much and she cant feel any pleasure or enjoy it at all..
anything we can do to help her enjoy it or feel pleasured and not only just pain?
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May 18, 2015 at 2:48 pm
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need advice – orgasmless threesome
ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 months and we had been talking about a threesome for some time now. Well, we finally found a woman to join us and we did it. I being a bisexual female had the desire to lick her so I did that and got that well out of my system. But this was 3 days ago that the threesome occurred and I didnt have an orgasm from either of them the day of the threesome and my man, knowing this still hasnt even attempted to give me one. It has been since march 30th (my birthday) that he has given me one. I have been relying solely on my vibrator for pleasure after he fucks me and is done with me. I fear that I may have had too much stimulation with the vibrator and now am not able to cum any other way? I dont know if this is possible. But if theres anyone out there that knows about this please let me know what to do about that aspect. But I feel it is wrong for him to not care about my pleasure after such a delicate endeavor. I dont like that I have yet to have an orgasm after the two of them had an orgasm. Him in which he got off from fucking her, instead of me. I felt more like the 3rd to them in a way. So, yesterday I wrote him a little letter on paper explaining my feelings and the whole outlook of the situation from my viewpoints. And he got mad at me for faking the orgasm the day of. When in all actuality I didnt fake anything that day. He knew flat out that I didnt have an orgasm. Please let me know if i would be in the wrong to get upset and escalate this further or what I should do. Shouldnt our interaction with eachother still be number 1?
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April 20, 2015 at 11:19 pm
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the spell caster that help bring my ex back
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March 25, 2015 at 6:11 am
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the difference between abuse and bdsm..article
Dominant Life ? Ask Policy
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March 6, 2015 at 9:03 am
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Share some sex advice…
Share your advice here...
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February 24, 2015 at 10:51 pm
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Playas
A playa is a guy who gets into your head and messes with you, he gets things out of you but is on the cock for other women that he calls his bitches. He thinks hes clever and puts on a charming front so he can get what he wants and when hes had enough he will get the next bitch to roll over for him
thankfully not all men are playas but I just been played so what? shit happens but i wouldn't want to see it happen to someone else. RESPECT to all the lovley trustworthy guys in my life, I love you lots sorry to vent but there we are enjoy your party
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February 13, 2015 at 9:07 pm
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difference between abuse and bdsm
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February 11, 2015 at 10:35 am
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Cunnilingus
The saying goes - the way to a mans heart is through his stomach, well for the ladies it should be - the way to a womens heart is cunnilingus.
Ive never meet a women who didn't like it, and I always make sure they get what they want before I get what I want, and its served me well over the years. im 41 and my fianceee is 26, we have a very good sex life and I make sure she orgasms before I do which then benefits me as she is more receptive to my advances when I ask for things such as anal etc.
Her ex-sexual partners number is higher than mine but she has told her friends i'm the best she has had, so im deffinately doing something right.
my advice to the men out there reading this is simple, CUNNILINGUS.
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February 8, 2015 at 10:34 am
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How to tell if a guy will let you have gay sex with him! Can I try playing with him a
If I'm at a friends house how can I come on to another guy should I sit next to him and let my hand slip slowly towards his crotch! Should I flirt or wait until he is asleep and play with is penis!
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February 1, 2015 at 3:48 am
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Touched for the first time
Hello. My boyfriend touched my boobs yesterday and he told me "you never respond to me, I don't know if you like it or not". I mean, of course I like it. Well, I just wanted to know from you boys: where do guys like to be touched whilst making out? I don't know anything about intimate relationship because this is my first real relationship with somebody I really love. And I'm virgin but I'm not afraid to lose my virginity much less with him, I really love him. I'm just very insecure, I don't know where to touch him too or do cool stuff like he does with me. I'm afraid that I'll do something wrong and be awkward. Any advice will help a lot, please! thanks. :confused:
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January 25, 2015 at 11:09 am
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i’m lost
First of all let point out that i had a rough and lonely child hood(anti social)... and now would like to change.
Ok, heres the deal, i work in a shoes store(my first 'public' job), and every chick(and unfortunately some guys too) who comes in gives me signals, or sub communicate (what i believe) that they want sex, and they always assume i know exactly what they are talking about, it took me a while to figure out though. what they would do is, say stuff like they want size 9 (shoes) with emphasis on 9 or they'l keep fake(obviously) coughing or play with their hair and fix pants whenever i look in their direction. I know this ll means they want sex, but what should be my approach or moves when ever i get these signals?
also when ever i give them the shoes they always look inside the box hoping i put something in there, and always look disappointed whenever they dont see what they were looking for, and they'l always act super secretive about it. like as i step out with shoe they'l quickly walk up o look inside, sometimes widening their eyes as they ask 'is the size (or shoe)''?
what s it they are looking for?
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January 21, 2015 at 5:12 pm
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Getting over a lost love
My mind is feeling completely torn on this one; any advice would be greatly received.
So after an arduous struggle with my mental health, my partner of over 4 years has left me. She put our relationship on hold a couple months back just before I went into hospital for treatment. When I was discharged, 19th December, we met up a couple of days later, after she hadn't come to visit me during my hospital stay. We've seen each other several times since, probably averaging twice a week, and things seemed to be on the mend. We'd even spent a few nights with each other, no sex, just cuddles, but I was happy with this for now. She's told me she wanted to take things slowly, which I had no argument with, we'd both caused pain so this seemed to make sense.
She'd moved out nearly 3 months ago, yet insisted on leaving a few items, such as dressing gown, for times she was staying over. Plus my garage is still packed with a load of her hoarded items. We appeared to be patching things up, and I was trying not to push her too quickly back into a committed relationship. All the signs were looking positive, and we both admit we still love each other.
But then on Saturday night she broke things off, announcing that she did not consider us a couple any longer. I'm absolutely devastated, heartbroken is an understatement. I wouldn't have minded as much if she'd ended it when I went into hospital or immediately after discharge, because I wasn't expecting us to continue an intimate relationship. But I feel as if I've been led on these last 3 weeks or so. Perhaps she was looking to see if I was strong enough to deal with it, but if that was her intent (that's if there is any intent behind it), I just feel betrayed; like she's got my hopes up and knocked me down again as I was still trying to shake off the final remnants of my depression.
I feel myself sinking once more into a cycle of depression and drug dependence. I fear I won't survive this time if I sink as low as I did last time.
Anyone, how do you get over your feelings for a loved one who no longer wants that love? I think my emotions for her are far too deep and complex for a simple friendship to remain either.
Surely some of you older folk with greater relationship experience can help me out with that one.
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January 12, 2015 at 11:15 pm
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December 29, 2014 at 3:23 am
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