Is this woman long term material or trouble? Met a women 38 years old. She has a wonderful personality, great communication skills and good at her job as office manager.
Problem is she although she is very friendly, she seems to take friendship lightly more as a convenience then a bonding (both men and women), she readily has casual sex, has a 3 year old son she does not have custody of, likes to party, smokes, makes subtle sexual comments and has a DWI. She also seems to be somewhat fickle in dating, that is, switching back and forth between guys.
I know this girl sounds like trouble, but I get the feeling she is looking for stability in her life and is really very sweet. Do you think I she would be capable of having a long-term relationship?
Do girls despise sex? I am currently on a dating site called POF (I'm sure you've heard of it) and literally every girl on they're says that they don't want sex, does that mean that they don't want sex ever? Do girls hate sex? I've seen a lot of girls go on rants about guys wanting sex. I don't want a girl for sex, I just want a relationship. I've been delusioned into thinking that girls despise sex, do I have the wrong idea? Do girls like sex ever?123
Am I wrong for this? Ok so yesterday I broke up with my GF because she told me she was bisexual. At first I was alright with it because I have many gay friends, I dont support it but I dont judge people, but then I saw she was still good friends with a past girl she was intimate with I then thought of how emasculated and embarrased I would feel if she cheated on me with this girl or any other girl for that matter because legally I cant fight this girl if something happened. I just dont know I really liked her and still do but I can definatley see her cheating as she has in the past from what I have heard. Am I homophobic or just plain wrong for this?
After 3 dates, still not feeling anything. How to kindly break it off? Hi, folks. Well, the title is fairly straightforward, but I'll give a bit more info.
From the outset, I want to say that this woman is great in many ways. She's smart and well educated (she has one Master's and is on her way toward a second one), strongly independent, funny, she has a great dorky side, and she's kind but also quite fiery. Great qualities that would make a guy fall for her. Just... not me.
I met this woman through OLD, and after a week of a few email exchanges I got her number. We met up for a coffee date and had good conversation, laughed at dumb jokes, and learned we had plenty in common. All in all, a fun date. But I felt no real attraction whatsoever. When we left we didn't even so much as hug. My first mistake was not trusting my gut after that and agreeing to see her again when she asked if we could meet up again. The second date was the same thing: more good conversation, funny stories, and this time it ended with a hug. But still, I felt nothing. Yet, we went out on a third date which lasted much longer. At the end of the night our conversation sort of stalled and I had a strong suspicion she was waiting for me to kiss her. I couldn't, and honestly, I really didn't want to. But if she was disappointed she seemed to hide it well and we left it at that. We exchanged a text message a couple days later just asking how the other's been. It's now been two days since that text and the honest truth is that I don't care to see her again.
I know I really should have ended it after the first date. And instead of wasting time asking for advice on a forum I should be figuring this out now, but I'm just at a loss. I stupidly believed that maybe the attraction would grow after a couple more dates which is why I ignored my gut instinct and went on the extra dates. She's a fantastic person, truly, and this is the first time I've been the guy to try to break something off. With Valentine's Day being tomorrow, I know my timing isn't exactly perfect either.
Maybe I'm getting worked up over too much after only three dates, but I really could use some help. What would be the kindest and most respectful way for me to tell her I'm not interested?
Top 5 Pointers to Have a Successful Date Here are five important tips to achieve a successful date I would like to share:
Pointer #1 - Avoid dating occasionally.
This result to what we call "dating fatigue". Dating is an continuous activity (until you find that perfect match) and so recharging your energies, building self-confidence and maintaining optimism levels high must be practiced. I advise that you schedule your date in time frames to regain your renewed vigor if necessary.
Pointer #2 - ENJOY your date as much as possible
Always strive to enjoy dating activities even if it shows signs of not being compatible with your date. Remember, this is one aspect of socializing and grab the opportunity by spending time in the company of new acquaintances who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The truth is, most people are interesting in a way and this may be the chance to look for new friends!
Pointer #3 - Never divulge your entire being on a first date.
Basically, we tend to be more interested with individuals who are mysterious and the thrill of the chase when dating. Therefore, if you are looking for a more serious relationship, sex is out of the agenda in a first date. As your date progress and the person starts to fall for you within a reasonable time, then there is a higher percentage that real love may bloom.
Pointer #4 - Do join a quality Internet dating community
Expand your network. Join quality dating sites wherein upon registration, the site gets extensive of not just your personal preferences but with the preferences you wanted from your ideal partner. Beware of dating sites that shows a lot of gorgeous girls but after joining you find that these are just dummy members. For those who wanted to go across the globe, there are dating domains from that site to choose from. But before looking for a foreign date, I advise you to study a brief culture background. Most of these relationships go down the drain due to culture incompatibility.
Pointer #5 –Expand your dating network and practice socializing skills
Once you have set your network, take time and check your mail occasionally. Even if you never dated online, it is a start to boost your confidence and spirits, allowing you to practice your opening lines and conversation skills. Internet dating is really fun, adventurous and secure. It introduces you to the world of dating safely and gently.
If you need more tips or advise please respond on this thread and I will try to help you with the best of my knowledge.
Thanks!
Was I wrong not to give her a second chance? Met a girl who rejected a subtle but sincere intereset on my part in favor of another guy. We work together so I see her and the other guy every day. (I know, I know...never date at work! I learned the hard way.) It's been a year and now this girl comes to me saying this guy is a zero and wanted to know if I still care? I did, but I said no and changed the subject sort of closing the issue without giving her a chance to explain. She seemed surprisingly quite upset by this. Was I wrong not to give her a chance to explain?
Before you answer, here's a little more info. When she declined, she went around the office telling some girls I was too short (5'9" she is 5'7") and making a joke out of the fact that I had a crush on her in front of myself, the other guy and other co-workers. He continued to cut me down in front of of her. She wasn't bothered by this at all. Later, when she wasn't around he came to my office and said, "I screwed her and there is nothing you can do about it?" just to stroke his ego. Both like to use sexual inuendo a lot. He lives with another girl that is the father of his two girls. Although they are not married they they have lived together for many years, share expenses and he calls her his wife. He later says they have a 'special arrangement' so he can date other women.
Am I a Bad Guy? met a girl at work, got along great for weeks. Then, after asking my height (5'9" she is 5'7") she complained about it to other girls at the office and avoided me like the plague. Then she hooked up with a married player that, knowing I liked her, came to my office and said, "I screwed her and there is nothing you can do about it." just to stroke his ego. Then, months later she comes to me complaining this guy is a zero and wanted to know if I still cared for her? I did, but I was hurt so I said no. She seemed surprisingly hurt by this, but I just figured given her actions, it couldn't really matter to her.
Was I wrong not to give her a chance?12
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Guys only! Traits that attract you? What are the things that attract you to a girl?
1. Hair (straight,wavy,curly?) (Blonde or brunette?)
2. Eye color
3. Body type (Skinny,curvy,chubby?)
4. Personality (Loud, shy?)
5. Makeup or no makeup
6. Style (conservative, bright, preppy, girly?)12…89
long term couples; how is your relationship? I was just thinking to myself, so many of my couple friends are breaking up at the moment and unfortunatly three of my friends are now single parents ( and their babies are all under 1 )
I also have to really rack my brains to think of any friend whos parents are still together.
Not just families though I dont know any couples who have been together linger than 2years. (mind you most of them are in their twenties so thats not too bad)
So for you lot who are in happy long term relationships, what are your tips ?
Do you have any wisdom to share or advise to give?
Im interested to learn :)12
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