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November 15, 2006 at 1:45 pm

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Insanity

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Ok!

So my best friend wants me to take her sister to a rave.

Which I am… Turnmills on the 8th.
(Lisa Lashes and Anne Savage !!!BANGIN!!!)

Anyway her sister has just moved over here from South Africa.
She has just come out of drugs rehab…
I don’t know how bad she was…
coz a couple of pillz to ma mate is aweful lol.

So anyway I have promised my best friend I’d take her sister along.

I like drugs… my best friend doesn’t know I take drugs.

I am meant to keep an eye on her sister, make sure she doesn’t do any…

Idon’t know what to do…

Whether I should tell my mate I do drugs…
I do them sneak…
Or not do them at all…

And AND and I doubt I’ll have any fun watching her sister like a hawk!

What should I do!??!!?

Any suggestions?!?!? please??!!

xxx
November 15, 2006 at 1:55 pm

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General Lighting

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I would have admitted a long time ago to a best friend that I was doing drugs – whatever the law says I don’t see much shame in it if the rest of your lifestyle is positive – TBH though all my friends in recent times either are or have been ravers and know the score with this.

I don’t also think its a very good idea of your friend to take her sister to a place where much of the culture revolves around drug taking if she has only just got out of rehab. Its not just you who may try and “tempt” her, what about randoms speaking to her and encouraging her….

I personally would call off the whole thing, or perhaps arrange for you to all get together in a place other than a rave event…

I wouldn’t feel at all comfortable or happy having to nanny and watch someone all night….if I wanted to do that sort of job I would have joined the NHS, the police or security industry…
November 15, 2006 at 1:57 pm

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BioTech

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Tough one.

My answer: I really don’t know!

That was helpfull wasn’t it.

To be honest though, if I was in the situation I’d probably take the sis and keep an eye on her but not so much so that it spoilt my night. Your mate must know that drugs are available if required at this kind of night so she must have confidence in her sister to stay away.

Is your friend against drug use then? If you don’t tell her then her sister might after she clocks that you are off your head. Might be best to mention that you dabble every now and again in a social manner.
November 15, 2006 at 2:18 pm

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Insanity

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Lol well I never use to take drugs… lol… then we broke up… didn’t speak for a year… in that year I started to use and love drugs… and now we’re back together… I just haven’t told her… cause yeah… I don’t wanna lose her again.

She’s against drugs you see.

I don’t know what her sister was in for… maybe her parents were over the top… i don’t think she’s a junkie or anything!

My best friend is pleading for me to take her… she wants to make her sister happy and apparently thats all she’s really into.. you know.

It’s real hard

I’m thinking of bringing my best friend along too. So it’s not my complete responsibility… and to have a in depth convo with her sister about it!
November 15, 2006 at 2:33 pm

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General Lighting

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hmm…

if someone isn’t a “junkie” (i.e doing heroin/crack)

and yet they end up in rehab…

and they are into dance music

then more than likely their parents have freaked out at their party drug use (pills etc). Whether it was justified or not it means their parents refused to tolerate their drug use and they would or could take similar action if they have a relapse..

If things fuck up, it could not only end a friendship but split a family at a time in someones life where they need the support of their family, so I’d definitely talk it through first.
November 15, 2006 at 2:39 pm

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Insanity

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Argh… and i’d feel it was all my thought!

I better admit it to her!
November 15, 2006 at 4:41 pm

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n.r.g

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don,t do it if it go,s pear shaped u will be the the bad one trust me no good can come of it and ur friend is a bit nieve to even think its a good idea
November 15, 2006 at 8:11 pm

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Raj

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Call it off :crazy:

And i am with GL on the best friend thing – how can you have one you have to keep such a big secret from?

:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

good luck whatever
November 15, 2006 at 8:27 pm

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B.EA.R

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yeah defo call it off, unless you want to go and not take anything,

unless you talk to your pal about it.
November 15, 2006 at 9:44 pm

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globalloon

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why does your mate, who is anti-drugs, want you to take her sister, who has just come out of rehab, to a place where there is likely to be drugs around

???

doesn’t add up at all
November 16, 2006 at 1:21 pm

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Sound-Guy

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I’d say take her, but tell your friend that your not a minder and you are out to have fun on YOUR night. Not tryin to put it harshly if thats how it sounds. Anyway your friend must feel secure if shes asked you to take her sis ravin, every one knows what go’s on at raves and it will be her sisters choice on what she wants to do. Probably best to come clean about your habits, then she will reconsider wether she wants her sister to go or not and if she does then go and show her a good time!
November 16, 2006 at 3:45 pm

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stax

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globalloon wrote:

why does your mate, who is anti-drugs, want you to take her sister, who has just come out of rehab, to a place where there is likely to be drugs around

???

doesn’t add up at all

yer thats what i was thinking. surely your friend must realise these dos are largely orientated round drugs/alcohol. i think you should have a chat to your friend about ‘the way it is’
November 16, 2006 at 4:29 pm

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amelie

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i would take her along with me but wouldn’t take anything,maybe drink a few cans…cos if u do take drugs and the sis realises or finds out,wouldn’t u worry she tells her sister.that would be the end of it…it’s best u tell her.if u do drugs in a positive way and if she loves u she’ll get to know a new u and ur relationship may even grow stronger…blablabla…i mean it though.
November 16, 2006 at 4:30 pm

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amelie

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me again
why don’t u all go together?
November 17, 2006 at 3:38 pm

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K_trina

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If she’s your bestmate, why haven’t you told you do drugs??
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