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  • @joksgez 534614 wrote:

    I have always been clever

    and always modest?

    anyway… cheeseweasel is pretty much right imo, he is the reality check here. if you’re serious about £££ then university is not a fast track to getting there. you are no longer in the minority going to uni, but if you go and get a 2.1 it will be a stepping stone at least to get u employed

    @joksgez 534614 wrote:

    Just interested to know if many people on here are at uni and how much the workload effects there ability to still have a thriving party life

    uni is for partying. as barrettone said you will have experiences you won’t get anywhere else, both intellectually and socially. i got a 2.1 and had fun. you will have to miss the party some of the time if you want to make the grade, unless you’re clever.
    the thing is tho, you’re only going to really enjoy the social side if the academic side is going ok, otherwise it will spoil it for you so try to choose something you can get passionate about and commit to. i got offers but turned them down just because i didn’t get a click. i went through the application process again a couple of years later and found a better course and went. im quite glad i did now. there’s no rush also. there seems to be a strong emphasis on going straight from school in this country, but its quite ok to find yourself a bit, and find what you want to do before making such a commitment… also you won’t get the financial support so easily again (unless you have rich folks) so make sure you’re heart is there and u get a click with the uni before you go. if you’re feeling unease there is a reason and you should listen to that internal dialogue and later on you will probably thank yourself for it.

    good luck 🙂

    @pyɔross. 534657 wrote:

    I’m in my first year of uni at the moment, it’s still entirely possible to have a decent party life

    thats because 1st year is 40% bare minimum pass or fail only and then the slate is wiped clean for the 2nd year. 1st year is party time, lol. wait till the 2nd year and see the look on people’s faces when points mean prizes ^^

    @General Lighting 534896 wrote:

    Most technical drawing is done on computers these days and isn’t half as hard as it once was. In our country there is a wrong perception that the skilled trades do not need brains (which is why many of our infrastructure projects run into bad problems and make financial losses), and the idea that everyone must attend University in Western Europe is quite frankly of the most hare-brained things that has arisen here.

    Exactly. 20 years ago, although universities were free to attend, far fewer people went, and to be admitted to university was seen as quite a prestigious achievement. Since the commercialisation of higher education in this country, despite the fact that degrees are now worth less and are not hard to get onto, there still seems to be a perception that university education is the proper aspiration for any middle-class college student, and to do anything else is seen as ‘working-class’ or a waste of potential (this is not helped by the university marketeers who use ‘career prospects’ to sell places).

    Some people argue that you might as well do a degree, since most new job seekers will have one by the time you graduate, so to not have one will place you at a disadvantage, but I do wonder how long it will be until employers grow tired of hiring people with second-rate qualifications and bad attitudes who are unable to do their jobs, and just start to ignore them in favour of those who have limited experience and a willingness to learn.

    If my earlier post seemed a little bitter, it’s because it was. I now know plenty of people who have ‘been through the mill’ as it were, and come out to find that their degree hasn’t helped them to find a job, and they’ve had to retrain or do something completely different. My younger bro did badly in his A-levels, but ended up being accepted onto a foundation degree in engineering. He scraped through that, then got onto a bachelors degree in engineering, which he did for the next three years, and ended up with a third-class degree. After about a year of unsuccessful job-hunting he ended up doing some CAD courses off his own back, and recently started a job at an engineering firm as a junior draftsman (no degree required, just some basic CAD experience). He’s doing a lot better now and learning loads on the job, as he’s a practical guy, but not particularly academic. University was a mistake for him, as he could have done the CAD course after leaving school and got the job three years ago (and I’m sure he would have been promoted a couple of places by now).

    CAD is actually not a bad shout. For anyone who has grown up using computers, getting to grips with the software is not especially hard, and it’s a very transferable skill – it’s used in all sorts of unexpected places, not just engineering firms. I might even consider training myself this year, as it looks like I’ll be doing some project/production management work in the summer and CAD is used in the sound/events industry for creating site maps, stage plans and even drawings of truck interiors (for figuring out the best way to stack flightcases for transit).

    On the other hand, my younger sister is doing a PHD and loving it (I couldn’t think of anything worse!), and it seems absolutely the right thing for her to do, as she’s quite academically-minded and driven.

    cheers for all the info, this is what i have been saying to people since i’ve always been in two minds about whether i should go surely i should be 100% sure i know i want to do it or else it will probably end badly.

    my dad is of the opinion that i should go to uni no matter where it is or what im studying as i will have 3 years of fun and come out with a degree at the end – which is the completely wrong way of looking at uni i think, but he is pretty stubborn and wont be told otherwise.

    a couple of months back i decided i wasn’t going to go and i was gonna get a job a ‘find myself’ as they say, but after realising how hard it is to get a job at the moment i was put off and scared back into going to uni as it will give me something to do for the next 3 years.

    its just all a bit confusing really but i completely agree people rush into things too much which is what i am trying to avoid

    @joksgez 534922 wrote:

    cheers for all the info, this is what i have been saying to people since i’ve always been in two minds about whether i should go surely i should be 100% sure i know i want to do it or else it will probably end badly.

    my dad is of the opinion that i should go to uni no matter where it is or what im studying as i will have 3 years of fun and come out with a degree at the end – which is the completely wrong way of looking at uni i think, but he is pretty stubborn and wont be told otherwise.

    I would have thought/hoped that dads became at least slightly more enlightened in 25 years, as mine said just the same.

    Even back then folk got pushed into university who really didn’t want to be there like myself (though I was actually good at all the practical stuff but not so much at exams/theoretical concepts). To this day I still only vaguely know how the maths works for digital signal processing. At the same time I set up this stuff both at work and for enjoyment all the time and manage to design robust systems that work and get good sound or pictures out of things I do for enjoyment

    Especially as you can go to college for 2 years now doing something you actually want to do, still have fun and work at the same time, have less of a debt of Dad to end up helping you to pay off, and people go to University even when they are middle aged.

    Also jobs won’t miraculously appear anyway whether you have two degrees or just A-levels, especially not the fun ones and even if they do the work is not regular or there is loads of competition (like with interior decorating).

    @cheeseweasel 534921 wrote:

    Some people argue that you might as well do a degree, since most new job seekers will have one by the time you graduate, so to not have one will place you at a disadvantage, but I do wonder how long it will be until employers grow tired of hiring people with second-rate qualifications and bad attitudes who are unable to do their jobs, and just start to ignore them in favour of those who have limited experience and a willingness to learn.

    This has already happened where I work. The senior management are more wary of people with certain qualifications and CV history (and yes they do check hobbies and leisure!) as they think they will immediately want a “London / SE area” salary (the East is not as affluent as SE England) but also won’t want to put in extra hours when needed during busy times/emergencies (this is a healthcare organisation which is 24/7).

    its not as harsh as it seems as they would never employ me but they (and other employers here) are really concerned that the education system isn’t teaching anyone the right things which also include various social skills and basic communication skills (its worrying when you see folk born here struggle with basic English and spelling more so than people “just off the boat”) – they are very supportive of day release and vocational courses though..

    @joksgez 534922 wrote:

    cheers for all the info, this is what i have been saying to people since i’ve always been in two minds about whether i should go surely i should be 100% sure i know i want to do it or else it will probably end badly.

    my dad is of the opinion that i should go to uni no matter where it is or what im studying as i will have 3 years of fun and come out with a degree at the end – which is the completely wrong way of looking at uni i think, but he is pretty stubborn and wont be told otherwise.

    a couple of months back i decided i wasn’t going to go and i was gonna get a job a ‘find myself’ as they say, but after realising how hard it is to get a job at the moment i was put off and scared back into going to uni as it will give me something to do for the next 3 years.

    its just all a bit confusing really but i completely agree people rush into things too much which is what i am trying to avoid

    you may not feel 100% but you can have a good amount of faith in your instincts… are you feeling it?

    i’d suggest having not much else to do and not being able to find a job is not the best reason to go. why don’t you get a basic job and go to events for things you have an interest in?… have a look around and try to understand what you want to do.

    if you’re up for a graft and would like a financially stable future where you may even be able to enjoy some £ at some point then i’d read cheaseweasel’s last post. ofc grafting is not as fun as partying but you may get a deeper satisfaction later on when you can support yourself at a relatively young age

    @know_hope 534928 wrote:

    you may not feel 100% but you can have a good amount of faith in your instincts… are you feeling it?

    i’d suggest having not much else to do and not being able to find a job is not the best reason to go. why don’t you get a basic job and go to events for things you have an interest in?… have a look around and try to understand what you want to do.

    if you’re up for a graft and would like a financially stable future where you may even be able to enjoy some £ at some point then i’d read cheaseweasel’s last post. ofc grafting is not as fun as partying but you may get a deeper satisfaction later on when you can support yourself

    well sometimes im feeling it but then sometimes i’m just like nah i know what i am like i think i would fuck it up and it would be a very costly fuck up. cheeseweasel is completely right i think, and i am up for grafting but i dont want to jump into something really serious straight away and miss out on the partying a young life should involve (i know that sounds like an extremely childish, lazy and selfish thing to say but its just the way i am)

    but also on the other hand i dont want to just get a shit job so i can coast by for now and enjoy myself and then find myself in that same shit job 10 years later when all my party friends have moved on to doing better things and im just stuck in a rut (something which i have seen with older people i know)

    @General Lighting 534925 wrote:

    This has already happened where I work. The senior management are more wary of people with certain qualifications and CV history (and yes they do check hobbies and leisure!) as they think they will immediately want a “London / SE area” salary (the East is not as affluent as SE England) but also won’t want to put in extra hours when needed during busy times/emergencies (this is a healthcare organisation which is 24/7).

    its not as harsh as it seems as they would never employ me but they (and other employers here) are really concerned that the education system isn’t teaching anyone the right things which also include various social skills and basic communication skills (its worrying when you see folk born here struggle with basic English and spelling more so than people “just off the boat”) – they are very supportive of day release and vocational courses though..

    I think having a vocational qualification can suggest that the person has made an effort to ‘go against the flow’ and taken the initiative to train in something that they are passionate about. Ironically, although doing a degree takes a lot more time and involvement than a short course, a lot of people just go to uni because it’s ‘the done thing’ and aren’t all that interested in their chosen subject so may not be as appealing to a prospective employer.

    Amongst the various companies I work for, there is one in Bristol who give me the majority of my work. We get CVs on a daily basis from school-leavers, students and graduates mostly trying to get sound engineering work, and from time to time we do need extra crew and we try them out. The ones who have just spent the last few years at uni do seem to have the worst attitudes to work (moaning about getting muddy, having to lift things, generally being lazy/shit). Although they may know how to do a Fourier transform or design a Fixed Impulse Response filter, if they’re going to bitch about loading a truck in the dark then they’re a pain in the arse to have around as they’re bad for morale. We do get really excellent ones too, though – we tried out a guy a couple of weeks ago who impressed us so much, we’ve offered him loads of paid work over the summer.

    I did a degree in sound recording, and whilst it was very technical, I don’t feel that it really prepared me for work. I left with a bit of a know-it-all attitude and was brought down a couple of pegs when I had to start finding work for myself and realised that I wouldn’t be walking straight into the hotseat at a big recording studio.

    @joksgez 534930 wrote:

    well sometimes im feeling it but then sometimes i’m just like nah i know what i am like i think i would fuck it up and it would be a very costly fuck up. cheeseweasel is completely right i think, and i am up for grafting but i dont want to jump into something really serious straight away and miss out on the partying a young life should involve (i know that sounds like an extremely childish, lazy and selfish thing to say but its just the way i am)

    but also on the other hand i dont want to just get a shit job so i can coast by for now and enjoy myself and then find myself in that same shit job 10 years later when all my party friends have moved on to doing better things and im just stuck in a rut (something which i have seen with older people i know)

    whichever way you go, it sounds like you could do with doing some research… there’s potential to party with every outcome, although there may be times that if you’re committed you’ll feel u have to give it a miss…

    how can you make an informed choice if you don’t really know what the options are and what they entail?

    You can still party while you have a job. In fact, with many jobs you can happily get fucked at the weekend, feeling that you’ve earned it, and without the nagging stress of coursework/deadlines looming over you. And you can afford better drugs :wink:. I was smoking DMT with my boss on Friday night until about 7am!

    @cheeseweasel 534936 wrote:

    You can still party while you have a job. In fact, with many jobs you can happily get fucked at the weekend, feeling that you’ve earned it, and without the nagging stress of coursework/deadlines looming over you. And you can afford better drugs :wink:. I was smoking DMT with my boss on Friday night until about 7am!

    u may not be able to guarantee getting that kind of boss >.>

    i’d recommend reading this book. its just short but witty captions… and it has pictures!! wooo :weee:
    Whatever You Think, Think the Opposite by Paul Arden – Reviews, Discussion, Bookclubs, Lists

    i also found this page :p

    How to Be Happy, Young and Jobless | VICE United Kingdom

    @know_hope 534941 wrote:

    i’d recommend reading this book. its just short but witty captions… and it has pictures!! wooo :weee:
    Whatever You Think, Think the Opposite by Paul Arden – Reviews, Discussion, Bookclubs, Lists

    i also found this page :p

    How to Be Happy, Young and Jobless | VICE United Kingdom

    hahah the vice one made me laugh

    I am only a uni person until I get my wheel fixed – then I become a regular bicyclist again…

    … until then, it’s a challenging balancing act.

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