@p0ly 491119 wrote:
So I’m not really fully sure on this one. Obviously most sane people don’t fancy their mum/sister etc but what about other people?
for me i prefer chilling with girls these days and mostly do as i use my attractive nature to be more liked and i just generally prefer being with girls, it feels nicer and more right (especially touch and aesthetically pleasing to the eye) but when i think about it i wouldn’t mind a piece of most of them and feel the same way about how they are with me even if some of em i feel we’d never hook up. (as for pure LOLz though it has to be males every time ftw though).
so anyway what is your opinion on the matter.
I believe anything is possible and actually my boyfriend and I broke up this past week. At the same time however, an old friend of mine showed back up in my life. He is a guy. We’re so comfortable with each other being friends that we have actually talked about being together and haven’t taken it a step further than that. We’ve only kissed on the cheek and I love hanging out with him. He’s my best friend and one of my only friends…my other friends that are female just piss me off constantly so it’s nice to be able to have a guy friend to talk to about things we like to do and have in common.
I honestly didn’t believe that to be true at all but in the past 2 years, I have come to realize that both men and women can be just friends with each other even if the other is in a relationship. Now I mean obviously like I said, I’m single now, but it was no different between him and me when I was dating this other guy. My ex knew that I was friends with this guy and it had nothing to do with our break up.
Legit we broke up with each other (usually people place the blame on one person) because we didn’t want the same things in life and really didn’t have a whole lot in common, plus my ex was easily offended and did not have the type of rebellious spirit that I do. It wasn’t a deal breaker for me because I still liked him as a boyfriend but basically it came down to the fact that I had surgery back in October of last year to remove 15-20lbs of excess skin due to extreme weight loss and I had to sign a “contract” with my doctor saying that I understood if I chose to have children within the next 10-15 years, then my surgery would have been for nothing. I didn’t want to be with someone who would be miserable without kids and I didn’t want to be in a relationship with someone and be miserable myself for not being able to be completely comfortable around him. I honestly felt like I was playing a part in a movie when I was dating this guy.
My ex wanted kids really badly and I’m turning 25 in May so it would have been a long time to wait and besides that, I don’t want children. Now before someone calls me out for being an asshole for not wanting kids, I choose not to want them because I have some terrible genetic issues in my family including epilepsy and Bipolar Disorder that my children would probably develop if I had them. So it is my personal choice not to have children because I would not want to bring a child into this world with these terrible illnesses. It makes me feel bad since most of the people I went to school with have 3-4 kids now and love them but knowing that I am a carrier for these genes just makes me sad to think about giving birth to a child that will be affected by at least one of them.
