Crisis Thread

[1 stayawayfromafrica @stayawayfromafrica Member]

Also if the meds are aggravating u,call ur doc soon.lotz of psychiatric meds cause mania.in my case i cant take ssri’s.id flipout so always b completly honest,with ur doc.n leave things like mild stims like caffeine alone.also b very kwnolledgable about ur meds an their interactions,n contradictions.ok also alot of these disorders seem to work themselves out with age.good luck ab

[1 The Psyentist @the-psyentist Member]

@stayawayfromafrica 519396 wrote:

Psy,that sucks Guy i can relate in my younger years,my mom got remarrried in my early teens to a fucktard.right now id leave any psychoactive subs alone.but u did say u seeing a therapist,are u on any medications For this,or any other reason.quite often meds that can b prescribed For a disorder,in turn aggrivate it.mental health is often trial an error,with meds untill they find what suits you,just remember
Psy this will pass,u wont b living with the asshole For life,so please dont do anything that will make ur life harder.it is hard ecspecially in early adolescent s.i did dumb shit when i was young out of anger an just being pist all the time.n it follows me to this day even tho it was 11years ago.in it was just cuz i was always mad n nothing removed that.but please ,try breathing exercises anything to quiet the anger.an know this is not permanent.u will move on n past ur current living situation.Maybe new meds or whatever u find helps u.dnt let a jerkoff dictate ur future years.ok man i Hope u feel better bro

Thanks for the emphatic guidance there SAFA. Just to clarify I no longer live with my stepfather (the man I believe to have triggered many of my current mental health issues), I moved out when I was 19 and I’m now 24. I currently live with my loving and supportive girlfriend.

The only meds I’m currently on are for assisting sleep as I’m sure you’re aware my insomnia has become highly disruptive to my life recently. When I was given my initial diagnosis of bipolar a few years ago I didn’t want meds and as I appeared to be coping was not given any. It was only at the end of October where my symptoms that had been following a consistent pattern changed and I found myself struggling to cope without professional intervention. After being fucked around by the NHS for a few months I’ve decided to go private for a reassessment. Oddly enough my first private appointment is tomorrow (I’ve noticed I’m developing a coincidental habit of posting on this thread the day before my appointments).

[1 Deez @deez Member]

I have no idea what I want to do my life, I have no motivation for anything, I just sit here in a hazy bubble pissing my life away, fucking up the opportunities I have, not giving a fuck about my education..

Feels bad.. Theres so much more I want to write but I don’t want to look pathetic.

[1 Garoldeep Singh @garoldeep-singh Member]

Life is shit. So keep the rose tinted glasses on people.

[1 Dk5678 @dk5678 Member]

Sticky even though u fucked me up with that cop thread u seem allright!

[1 Mezz @mezz Member]

@DeezNuts 520870 wrote:

I have no idea what I want to do my life, I have no motivation for anything, I just sit here in a hazy bubble pissing my life away, fucking up the opportunities I have, not giving a fuck about my education..

Feels bad.. Theres so much more I want to write but I don’t want to look pathetic.

Ditto, recon there a lot of peeps in the same boat, just washing in and out with the tide each day

[1 Deez @deez Member]

@Mezz 520881 wrote:

Ditto, recon there a lot of peeps in the same boat, just washing in and out with the tide each day

It’s depressing as shit, got so much pressure to do something but I have no idea what, I don’t want to get stuck in some shitty office job cause I don’t wanna spend my life doing some mundane shit.

[1 The Psyentist @the-psyentist Member]

@DeezNuts 520870 wrote:

I have no idea what I want to do my life, I have no motivation for anything, I just sit here in a hazy bubble pissing my life away, fucking up the opportunities I have, not giving a fuck about my education..

Feels bad.. Theres so much more I want to write but I don’t want to look pathetic.

It’s sad to hear this from you mate but you are still very young, as am I really and there is still plenty of time for change 😉

[1 MC G-Tek @mc-g-tek Member]

@The Psyentist 521024 wrote:

It’s sad to hear this from you mate but you are still very young, as am I really and there is still plenty of time for change 😉

What Psy said man, don’t stress about it, you’ve got ya whole life in front of you dude.

[1 Deez @deez Member]

@The Psyentist 521024 wrote:

It’s sad to hear this from you mate but you are still very young, as am I really and there is still plenty of time for change 😉

I suppose so, but with nothing to aim for I just do fuck all, but I have no idea of what I want to be & what I want so there can be no change..

Its weird because i’m not normally like this, i’m normally sort of like fuck I can change it as i believe attitude to situations is everything, but..

[1 The Psyentist @the-psyentist Member]

Also don’t be afraid to express yourself. If there’s one place you won’t be judged I think it’s here, as you’ve said yourself when welcoming newcomers feel free to ask away if you want any answers or advice. How can we help and/or reassure if you don’t reveal a little more?

Sod all the people that judge and fuck the I’m not a man if I show weakness attitude!

[6 General Lighting @general-lighting Moderator Staff]

@DeezNuts 520870 wrote:

I have no idea what I want to do my life, I have no motivation for anything, I just sit here in a hazy bubble pissing my life away, fucking up the opportunities I have, not giving a fuck about my education..
Feels bad.. Theres so much more I want to write but I don’t want to look pathetic.

it is actually very hard to get motivation in your teens/early 20s which is why its doubly fucked up you are expected to do so much stuff in your youth, especially when life expectancy in England is easily 80-100+ these days.

many young men do not actually grow up until age 30 or beyond (I didn’t!) and in some ways its better not to have any big ideas at a young age than big ambitions and then see them all go to shit as the years go on.

[1 MC G-Tek @mc-g-tek Member]

@DeezNuts 521033 wrote:

I suppose so, but with nothing to aim for I just do fuck all, but I have no idea of what I want to be & what I want so there can be no change..

Its weird because i’m not normally like this, i’m normally sort of like fuck I can change it as i believe attitude to situations is everything, but..

What do you want to do with your life mate? I don’t mean the sort of answers that people expect you to give, but the one thing you’ve always wanted to do above all else, no matter how outrageous it sounds (even if it’s to be the main driver on the rape train, lol).

[1 MC G-Tek @mc-g-tek Member]

@General Lighting 521039 wrote:

it is actually very hard to get motivation in your teens/early 20s which is why its doubly fucked up you are expected to do so much stuff in your youth, especially when life expectancy in England is easily 80-100+ these days.

many young men do not actually grow up until age 30 or beyond (I didn’t!) and in some ways its better not to have any big ideas at a young age than big ambitions and then see them all go to shit as the years go on.

^This!^

[1 Deez @deez Member]

To be honest I really wanna do something musical but the chances of that being enough to support me are slim and with college I don’t have time for it anyway as i’m already about 3 months behind in coursework.
I’m expected to do well in college and go to university and all that crap cause i’m quite intelligent but I don’t even know if thats what I want to do, I don’t want to rack up a massive amount of debt just to possibly fail.

Cheers for the support though dudes, it’s much appreciated and nice to have some older people to talk to about things like this

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