even if its understandable you have to give the graphic details, why do you say you are in a country hundreds of km (EE) away when your IP is in BG? this really makes a big difference to how people can help you and also which healthcare authorities we can refer you to. OK I know that cultures across Europe are different and the people in real power in countries new to Europe can be more socially conservative than UK or NL and religion has more power, so perhaps you are frightened to give your actual country.
The telecoms ministry in your country can always tell where you really are and what you are posting. the more you try and hide, the more they look. also the more inaccurate information you give the less other people trust you. this site originally was set up to give info about illegal raves in England and other similar events in Europe. so many police across Europe watched us. Nowadays we don’t openly advertise illegal raves, because we can all get in trouble with the police, so legal events and other lifestyle stuff is discussed here. but still we get many journalists, some undercover police, trolls and people trying to sell things. Many speak good English but come from countries just outside the richer European countries.
Also as a European site everyone here must still obey the law. its normally OK to talk about sex everywhere in Europe but there are different ages of consent. If you lie about your country, then people wonder if you also lie about your age as well. what if you are only 14 or 15? these days it can be highly illegal for people even in liberal countries to talk about sex with you unless they are proper healthcare workers. They can get their national police to their door and be arrested for grooming child abuse. Older people can get their own teenage children taken away from them by the social services authority. Trying to “help” someone could inadvertantly ruin a persons life as times have changed and folk becoming more conservative again, because folk of all ages have taken for granted and abused the freedom of speech that europe has.
I think you are older than that, and so is your girlfriend and both over the age of consent for your country, but really if you need to lie about your country for any reason (maybe your girlfriends parents do not approve, or she does not want this discussed on a forum where everything is on google 10 seconds after hitting send?) then it is not wise to discuss graphic details of your sex life on a big high profile global forum.
I could probably easily say I was in Rotterdam and get enough people to believe me, I know enough Dutch now and there are plenty of SE Asian people in NL but it would be completely pointless and underhand to do that unless I was actually there and I could still be identified and judged for everything I post.
In Europe we are lucky to have public funded health services where the workers should keep everything confidential and are better qualified and authorised to get you something like a morning after pill, and even in America and Iran which are very socially religiously conservative nations it seems that they are at least giving some family planning help to young people. So surely either BG or EE have these services?
this isn’t like illegal drugs which are relatively harmless to others and people only talk about their own use as they don’t want to bring police to their friends.
Another person is involved here and they don’t appear to be getting a voice as to whether their sex life is discussed in public or not. For instance English and Dutch girls / women are very open minded about sex but many of them would not want their relationship discussed in public even if their partner claimed to be from a different country and used a “code name”. They would rather that their partner went with them to family planning clinic and discussed this in private. Even if you don’t mean to it can look like you are simply bragging / boasting about your sex life.
Maybe rather than being a teenager you could even be a old man way older than me who has got with a much younger girl and is doing this to show how much control you have over her and thoroughly enjoying telling the young folk about it. This sort of creepy shit is rife in England, Germany, Netherlands etc and men are regularly arrested and judged for it and its interlinked with the dance music/drugs scene of today due to a lot of partriarchal old lbertarian types having power in it so its not surprising people get suspicious.
Now you are not the only person to do this and until proven otherwise I am willing to assume you are just a young student from Eastern Europe as you say you are and have made some genuine mistakes out of shyness and cultural differences but there are things about you what just don’t add up like your country of origin.
But we hate racism and bad nationalism here so everyone of every country is welcome to be here provided they are honest, but we do get bad people here so folk have to make a judgement as there are potential consequences for them when discussing controversial subjects in public. this site and the google records will still be around when you are 40 and I am 60 and we have to live with the consequences of everything we post and their effect on others.
