Party Vibe

I think often you can think of someone in a slightly different way for the first few times you meet them.

But my best friend is a guy. And the thought of doing anything with him, being with him or anything beond what we have now. Makes me feel weird.

So our relationship is completely friendship based. Although he is gay, that makes no difference in the question you’re asking.

Maybe its part of instint kicking in. Thats we’ve not completely evolved out of.

i don’t think they can just be friends.

i love ben with the unbridled passion of a newly wed… but he doesn’t doesn’t return my love.

of course men and women can just be friends. friendship can even, shockingly, involve mutual platonic and comfortable sex. why try to overanalyse everything? men are just people too and in my opinion those who say the two genders can’t be platonic friends are immature and sexist.

@uglyprettytrash 345253 wrote:

i love ben with the unbridled passion of a newly wed… but he doesn’t doesn’t return my love.

YouTube – Michael Mind – Show Me Love (House 2008)

play this to sparky, he’ll understand :laugh_at:

In my experiences every time I’ve slept with a girl that was my friend, two things were involved. Fun and heavy drinking. Hanging out all day having good times. One thing lead to another and I was laying i bed with them. Yeah things were strange for couple weeks afterwards, but things kinda got back to normal…haha. That stuff happens all the time.

Well it can work the other way too, with girls, as in you think how fun it is to just hang around and eventually they get angry for not “makeing a move”. Some people it seems find it hard to seperate wanting to be close to someone, in a non sexual way to just being close as friends…

And some girls can be quite flirty without realising it, and should make clear that they intend friendship. Although i personally love being friends with such, as i suppose im a biit of a flirt too, but its only good fun as long as both sides realise its just for fun! That way no one gets offended!

Just needed to say that were not all perverted. All the time.

I really dont know from where too start with my experian…about this tem….both i know that never man and women can be friends…..never

I think it is possible for men and women to be just friends. But many times it is difficult as we often act with our animal instincts rather than our brains :crazy_diz