Use some NLP. Imagine a time when you were at your most confident and at ease. When you really noticed how people around you were responding well to your charm. Picture it in your mind as completely as you can. Be there. See what you saw, hear what you heard, smell what you smelled, feel what you felt. Allow the feeling to intensify in your mind until it’s as strong as it can possibly be.
Now give this feeling a colour. Really see the colour in your minds eye, let it intensify until it’s as pure and bright as it can be. Now give that colour a shape. Let the shape and the colour fill your mind. Imagine the size of the shape and it’s position in your mind’s eye. Once you have this as clearly as you can look at something in the real world to break the state.
Repeat this exercise (keeping the shape, colour, size and position the same every time) until you can recall the feeling of confidence every time you think of the shape.
Now before you approach a girl, concentrate on the shape, allow the feeling of relaxed confidence to fill you then do and say what comes naturally. You will find that you go into a zone where everything just flows the way you want it to be. You will come across as relaxed and confident which chicks find very attractive.
Failing that you could use NLP to create a feeling of attraction in your target female and then anchor it to yourself but that would be unethical and requires great skill. 😉
Good luck.
