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    @General Lighting 497576 wrote:

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    @MR207 497575 wrote:

    I didn’t think you were actually mad…haha I think it’s hilarious! I mean I’m just fucking around with you too, no worries:) And I mean I guess I am pretty slow…I’ll admit it sadly:/

    And what do you think about this thread again? You won’t hurt my feelings I promise:P I know it’s stupid, but I was just curious, and If people don’t like it they don’t have to comment on it!

    I’ve been ill all day and not feeling too good and I really do not want to type this as I’m trying to meditate on compassion acceptance and love but I’m gonna be a bad human being for a minute.

    Your first thread was to do with some guy who had a gf (warning sign, STAY AWAY) who you thought was using you for sex and craved his attention and nice words. You didn’t even have sex with him or anything so do not see how he could be using you for sex… Do not go near older dudes with gfs, he didn’t love you and you were very needy (correct me if i’m wrong).

    Then you made a thread about texting some dude, you seemed very insecure and paranoid and definitely over thought the entire thing worrying which seems very needy and unattractive to guys unless they’re preying on some easy target.

    You have two pictures of yourself on this forum (profile and in the 2012 pic thread).. I’ve seen these types of photos all over FB and I know how girls use clever camera shots to make themselves look better… Generally they just contain close up facial shots… I don’t need to go into why they do that we all know that.

    Then you make this thread, it seems like you want to know how to attract guys because you really do not know how.

    I’m getting more into psychology so thought I’d type this out because you asked and I’m bored tonight because I’m ill and trying to avoid Alcohol and spending cash. If you like I can delete this if you don’t want others seeing. I’m just trying to give you advice and I think you worry too much. I used to be very insecure and over time I found myself and now I have too much love in my life it’s overwhelming and I attract too many girls!! Don’t worry what those airbrushed pictures look like, they are not reality, they have brainwashed you into being insecure. We are all beautiful creatures deep down, except some are messed up and turn into ugly hateful monsters who commit hideous crimes.

    If you’d like to anaylse me feel free, but you’d be telling me nothing I don’t already know. I have drug issues which I’m addressing and been hanging around with the wrong people (eg my ex gf because she was hot and really good in bed… and i managed to pull her in a day and have great sex pretty quickly).

    If you want a hot sexy English male to make yourself feel better about yourself i’ll do it, i’ll even love you as well and call you nice things… unless you like to be called dirty things in bed (you sound very submissive).

    @p0ly 497578 wrote:

    I’ve been ill all day and not feeling too good and I really do not want to type this as I’m trying to meditate on compassion acceptance and love but I’m gonna be a bad human being for a minute.

    Your first thread was to do with some guy who had a gf (warning sign, STAY AWAY) who you thought was using you for sex and craved his attention and nice words. You didn’t even have sex with him or anything so do not see how he could be using you for sex… Do not go near older dudes with gfs, he didn’t love you and you were very needy (correct me if i’m wrong).

    Then you made a thread about texting some dude, you seemed very insecure and paranoid and definitely over thought the entire thing worrying which seems very needy and unattractive to guys unless they’re preying on some easy target.

    You have two pictures of yourself on this forum (profile and in the 2012 pic thread).. I’ve seen these types of photos all over FB and I know how girls use clever camera shots to make themselves look better… Generally they just contain close up facial shots… I don’t need to go into why they do that we all know that.

    Then you make this thread, it seems like you want to know how to attract guys because you really do not know how.

    I’m getting more into psychology so thought I’d type this out because you asked and I’m bored tonight because I’m ill and trying to avoid Alcohol and spending cash. If you like I can delete this if you don’t want others seeing. I’m just trying to give you advice and I think you worry too much. I used to be very insecure and over time I found myself and now I have too much love in my life it’s overwhelming and I attract too many girls!! Don’t worry what those airbrushed pictures look like, they are not reality, they have brainwashed you into being insecure. We are all beautiful creatures deep down, except some are messed up and turn into ugly hateful monsters who commit hideous crimes.

    If you’d like to anaylse me feel free, but you’d be telling me nothing I don’t already know. I have drug issues which I’m addressing and been hanging around with the wrong people (eg my ex gf because she was hot and really good in bed… and i managed to pull her in a day and have great sex pretty quickly).

    If you want a hot sexy English male to make yourself feel better about yourself i’ll do it, i’ll even love you as well and call you nice things… unless you like to be called dirty things in bed (you sound very submissive).

    Wow, okay…I posted those things because I really needed help and you wouldn’t understand because you’re not a girl and you have no idea what it’s like. Im not doing any of this for attention if thats what youre saying, I just needed a place to vent and get help, which I thought I could do on here, but clearly not without concited people like you. I appreciate you telling me the truth but I’m sure you have alot of issues on your own and I don’t care if you delete this. And I do worry alot, I have strong anxiety and have struggled with it. And I don’t know what you’re trying to tell me about the pictures…They’re actually OF me which yours clearly aren’t, which don’t get me wrong, either you don’t want to show yourself or some other reason I can’t think of. Im proud of what I look like and I didn’t feel like posting a full body shot for all the pervs out there to make me look like a needy slut. I do know how to attract guys, I wanted to get a simple opinion to compare it to the guys I’ve dated, so really, try not to make assumptions when you don’t know the meaning behind the threads, it’s really rude and not funny at all. I don’t need anyone to make me feel happy because I’m happy with the way I am and I know I worry about A LOT of things, who doesn’t? But I mean feel free to call me nice things, I will still accept your generosity 🙂

    And btw, I DID have sex with the first guy

    Please, If you have a problem with what I post you really don’t have to comment on them. Since you have on every single one, I guess you just couldn’t resist:) And i’m only submissive when I wanna be, I really don’t feel like explaining my sex life to you though, so try not to ask.

    @MR207 497718 wrote:

    And btw, I DID have sex with the first guy

    That’s pretty harsh knowing he had a gf, maybe you didn’t but I wouldn’t believe it now if you said.

    Just so you know i have extremely high self esteem and enjoy to admire at my beauty on a daily basis 😛 no lie, i can’t help looking good 😛 i just don’t post pictures because i have incriminating info about myself all over this site, i have many many members on facebook off this site who can see hundreds of pictures of me. (yeah being big headed is also part of my humour just so you know, but it is true too).

    I don’t worry about a lot of things to be fair, just like that post i made, i didn’t really worry too much about your response and i don’t worry about your opinions about myself.

    I just said i felt like psychoanalyzing you and you said it wouldn’t make you cry and i felt it a fun thing to do as i’m into psychology quite a lot at the moment, i even spoke to other members from this site via IM things and they pretty much agreed with everything i wrote so it’s not like i’m some bat shit crazy person it’s just how you come across i’m afraid.

    You fail to see the humour I put as well sadly, guess your emotions got the better of you… and you sort of already did explain about your sex life by admitting you helped some dude have an affair :S

    @MR207 497719 wrote:

    Please, If you have a problem with what I post you really don’t have to comment on them. Since you have on every single one, I guess you just couldn’t resist:) And i’m only submissive when I wanna be, I really don’t feel like explaining my sex life to you though, so try not to ask.

    How would you feel if your partner had sex with a younger girl? sorry i just find cheating quite sick even if you weren’t the main one at fault you still aided some dude in it which i find very sad.

    just so you know i have no problem with you and actually enjoy your honestly and threads and hope you don’t get over emotional about this whole exchange we’ve had and keep posting. <3

    I just post here for fun, right now i find this fun, if i found this upsetting or difficult or anything but enjoyable i wouldn’t be here believe me 🙂

    wasn’t gonna put this but decided to edit to say i do actually try to provoke a little bit as well for my own personal enjoyment because it makes people respond and debate me. so here’s another provoke… this thread shouts superficial all over to me!! you are beautiful my darling you love the way you look but you worry and have extreme anxiety yet you’re asking about what guys are attracted to. mmm believable…

    and the award for cuntish post of the day award goes to… p0ly!!! 😀

    @MR207 497718 wrote:

    Wow, okay…I posted those things because I really needed help and you wouldn’t understand because you’re not a girl and you have no idea what it’s like.

    I just wouldn’t understand because i don’t have emotional issues about my weight and looks because magazines and tv make people out girls to be fake and beautiful when really their shit stinks just as bad as the rest of us. no i wouldn’t understand that because i don’t have a vagina and i’m not majorly superficial and silly enough to think people look like 90% the airbrushed girls look like.

    girls are so hard done by 🙁 i feel for you

    but you’re happy with the way you are.. so i’m 100% wrong here. sorry for making a BIG mistake again 😀

    @p0ly 497724 wrote:

    How would you feel if your partner had sex with a younger girl? sorry i just find cheating quite sick even if you weren’t the main one at fault you still aided some dude in it which i find very sad.

    just so you know i have no problem with you and actually enjoy your honestly and threads and hope you don’t get over emotional about this whole exchange we’ve had and keep posting. <3

    I just post here for fun, right now i find this fun, if i found this upsetting or difficult or anything but enjoyable i wouldn’t be here believe me 🙂

    wasn’t gonna put this but decided to edit to say i do actually try to provoke a little bit as well for my own personal enjoyment because it makes people respond and debate me. so here’s another provoke… this thread shouts superficial all over to me!! you are beautiful my darling you love the way you look but you worry and have extreme anxiety yet you’re asking about what guys are attracted to. mmm believable…

    and the award for cuntish post of the day award goes to… p0ly!!! 😀

    I know, that was a big slutty moment in my life, and what sucks about it the most was that I fell for him hard and I couldn’t take back my feelings so I didn’t care about anything else and just wanted to be with him. I ignored my friends because they said it was sick that we were 12 years apart and I was stupid and thought he would break up with her for me but it never happened. (Sorry for my rambling) And we worked together so we saw each other pretty much everyday so temptation was definitely there. It was just a simple thread, I wasn’t posting it for controversy or to be needy or anything, I just wanted to know! Not for any specific reason really:P

    And thank you, I hate anxiety:/ It sucks more than anything and I need to stop worrying because I tend to overthink things A LOT and it just depresses me so I need to think positive:) I don’t care what people think about me because I wouldn’t change for anyone!

    hahahah it goes to me too;)

    @p0ly 497725 wrote:

    I just wouldn’t understand because i don’t have emotional issues about my weight and looks because magazines and tv make people out girls to be fake and beautiful when really their shit stinks just as bad as the rest of us. no i wouldn’t understand that because i don’t have a vagina and i’m not majorly superficial and silly enough to think people look like 90% the airbrushed girls look like.

    girls are so hard done by 🙁 i feel for you

    but you’re happy with the way you are.. so i’m 100% wrong here. sorry for making a BIG mistake again 😀

    So you’re saying my pictures look fake? I don’t know what’s so bad about them, that’s the real me. I definitely don’t airbrush my pictures to look like girls in the magazines, I know I have flaws and I accept them because Its what makes me who I am. Are you’re saying that I can’t trick you with my pictures? Umm what the hell is that supposed to mean, maybe I’m wrong and have no idea what I’m talking about but that’s what I’m getting:P

    @MR207 497729 wrote:

    So you’re saying my pictures look fake? I don’t know what’s so bad about them, that’s the real me. I definitely don’t airbrush my pictures to look like girls in the magazines, I know I have flaws and I accept them because Its what makes me who I am. Are you’re saying that I can’t trick you with my pictures? Umm what the hell is that supposed to mean, maybe I’m wrong and have no idea what I’m talking about but that’s what I’m getting:P

    Don’t worry I wasn’t talking about your picture there i was talking about girls issues generally created by the media.

    i think your response was very mature and i did not expect it.

    congrats you seem pretty cool. much love and like i said, keep posting!! unless you’re not having fun don’t do it xx

    @p0ly 497754 wrote:

    Don’t worry I wasn’t talking about your picture there i was talking about girls issues generally created by the media.

    i think your response was very mature and i did not expect it.

    congrats you seem pretty cool. much love and like i said, keep posting!! unless you’re not having fun don’t do it xx

    Okay just making sure.. and I can’t tell weather that was sarcasm or not:X because you use it almost all the time lol, but Im just gonna pretend it wasn’t so thank you:)

    And I will keep posting! I’m gonna take your advice and not worry so much because I do that a lot!

    @MR207 497774 wrote:

    Okay just making sure.. and I can’t tell weather that was sarcasm or not:X because you use it almost all the time lol, but Im just gonna pretend it wasn’t so thank you:)

    And I will keep posting! I’m gonna take your advice and not worry so much because I do that a lot!

    <3 🙂

    Wouldn’t say I have a set ‘type’ at all, the girls I’ve been with are all quite different. Variety is the spice of life and lots of flavours are tasty 😉

    1. Hair: I suppose I’ve always had a soft spot for blondes as long as they’re not typical barbi pink girly girls. Bit of a thing for redheads recently (definitely got Karen Gillan in Doctor Who to blame for that). Brunettes are good too, I only really like black occasionaly
    2. Eye color: Doesn’t really matter, pretty eyes are a big attraction though not a fan of really small eyes either
    3. Body type. Curvy but not flabby.
    4. Personality (Loud, shy?) Can’t stand really loud ignorant types, but a fun open minded personality is a must. Quirky and kinky, it’s always the quieter ones that suprise you :devil_wag
    5. Makeup or no makeup: Natural or subtle makeup
    6. Style (conservative, bright, preppy, girly?): I have a natural aversion to ‘conservative’, don’t really mind about style just whatever looks good on them

    @MR207 497726 wrote:

    I know, that was a big slutty moment in my life, and what sucks about it the most was that I fell for him hard and I couldn’t take back my feelings so I didn’t care about anything else and just wanted to be with him. I ignored my friends because they said it was sick that we were 12 years apart and I was stupid and thought he would break up with her for me but it never happened. (Sorry for my rambling) And we worked together so we saw each other pretty much everyday so temptation was definitely there. It was just a simple thread, I wasn’t posting it for controversy or to be needy or anything, I just wanted to know! Not for any specific reason really:P

    Now… would you still feel quite so bad about it if nobody else but you and that person knew about it?

    Sometimes, keeping your mouth shut avoids all sorts of problems. Not saying you must or mustn’t, but it’s always an option.

    Me, I reckon you both had a good time, learned a little bit, and no real harm done. But that’s just my reckoning.

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