@Pat McDonald 497880 wrote:
Now… would you still feel quite so bad about it if nobody else but you and that person knew about it?
Sometimes, keeping your mouth shut avoids all sorts of problems. Not saying you must or mustn’t, but it’s always an option.
Me, I reckon you both had a good time, learned a little bit, and no real harm done. But that’s just my reckoning.
I would probably feel better if I had just kept it between me and him. But then again it was alot of my friends advice that helped me get through it all. I really don’t know i’d do if it weren’t for them. I needed help because I was naive and was blinded by the truth.
We did have a good time though, she never found out, I faced reality and realized it wasn’t going to be anything more than just fooling around even though as time went on I started to develop feelings as all girls do and I got somewhat hurt, but I’m over it. At times I feel a little guilty but to be honest I don’t regret it at all. It was just another experience i’ve learned from and something I can put in my past. I’m glad I met him and had a relationship with him because he’s a great guy. My friends ask me If I feel stupid and if the guilt has taken me over and I’m actually glad it happened, he satisfied me more than anyone else.
