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but girls in rural suffolk have plenty of places to turn to for help..
@General Lighting 410140 wrote:
its even stranger as all the other Oriental nations around Japan (at least their rich areas) have better womens rights, and Japan is a very rich nation. OK life for a peasant girl in the North of China (if she is even allowed to be born) isn’t that good, but there are girls/women in rural areas of Suffolk and Norfolk who get treated like shit…
Keep in mind though, societal pressure upon Japanese males is very high too, just different expectations, hence different treatment. There is a reason why suicide rates among male Japanese young-professionals is quite high.
It’s not really fair to way i dont know why they put up with it. Unless you’re in that position you will never know how you would deal with it. Like i hate when people say, woman who suffer from domestic abuse etc, should just get help should just leave the partner when it is never that easy. If you’re being controlled in a way that you feel noone else will understand or they literally mentally controll to the point where you think your own parents dont care its not just a case of putting up with it or whatever. Its so complicated. It’s so so dificult to get out of and its euphoric when you do.
@harr!et 410142 wrote:
but girls in rural suffolk have plenty of places to turn to for help..
They do in the towns (Haverhill, Lowestoft, Ipswich, Stowmarket, Felixstowe) but its harder and worse in the rural areas as they can often end up dependent on blokes for transport..
Have a look at the sheer size of the area on a map and bear in mind that public transport is near non-existent, taxis are expensive, cycling demands physical strength and a lot of women feel too intimidated to ride bikes here (it isn’t always pleasant in current weather conditions!) and the isolation soon becomews apparrent.
Even rural areas like Oxfordshire, Bucks, Surrey etc are much closer to towns than East Anglia. Things are big here!
@RussRG 410148 wrote:
Keep in mind though, societal pressure upon Japanese males is very high too, just different expectations, hence different treatment. There is a reason why suicide rates among male Japanese young-professionals is quite high.
this is true – unfortunately Japan seems to have only recently stopped fighting world War II (what they lost on the battlefield, they regained via the marketplace)
@Honeybear 407290 wrote:
Honour!? they just have major control issues. he cuts her eyes and tries to cut her tongue out so she cant even testify!? my god they should just kill those men they are TWISTED.[/QUOT
If women went on strike would there be more rape?
I say yes there would
If women went on strike would there be more rape?
I say yes there would
wow so deep Manaman. :you_crazy
I say who cares
the homes of salthill is a holiday park, so dont get excited
Hi All ,
Honor killings etc are a thing from the past and are still carried out now as some cultures still follow the same old rules . In many cultures , even our own a male was worth more than a female as the male carried over the family name . Plus even today to a point the brides family is supposed to foot the bill of the wedding , i forget the word used but the brides family would put up a sum of money for a wedding .
The idea was that families would wed for finacial reasons and better standing for the family . Now in the UK these sort of things dont happen much , but in certain cultures around the world its still like that .
Religion or culture are the only reasons for this , and im glad to say this in the UK is pretty much dead . When a culture or religion see’s a child as a way to make money or better their standing then its all wrong . Life is Life no matter what sex or standing , i hate class systems . We are all the same , human ….the sooner we realise this and forget that we are brown , black , yellow , white , blue ( scottish lol ) or pink with green spots ( me im ill lol ) ….we are all human and the same .
And i hate bullies and i think honour killings are just done by bullies that want to inflict their will on others , much the same as Domestic abuse from Husband or wife on their opposite partners . Its Child type Bullies , they are insecure so lash out .
One day this shit will stop i hope , we will always argue and dissagree but murder should never come into it .
regards
Mungo
ps to relieve anger hit yourself if you have to , but dont lash out …..believe me you starting hitting yourself you get plenty of time to yourself to cool off lol ……..last time i get angry on the number 7 bus to Lincoln 🙂
@p0ly 409206 wrote:
Religious culture. Secular places are clearly much more moral.. Doesn’t everyone have a little hate for USA?
The thing about bieng “moral”, is that there are so many differant morals to live by.
For example the “secular” english and american governments, hold mostly christian values and morals. E.g. emphasis on charity work (to an extent recently) anti drug laws including tobacco and alcohol and the like.
@mungo1972 414261 wrote:
Hi All ,
Honor killings etc are a thing from the past and are still carried out now as some cultures still follow the same old rules . In many cultures , even our own a male was worth more than a female as the male carried over the family name . Plus even today to a point the brides family is supposed to foot the bill of the wedding , i forget the word used but the brides family would put up a sum of money for a wedding .
dowry? :love:
@joshd96320 416921 wrote:
dowry? :love:
yep, nail on de hed mayn
@JRGiger 416861 wrote:
The thing about bieng “moral”, is that there are so many differant morals to live by.
For example the “secular” english and american governments, hold mostly christian values and morals. E.g. emphasis on charity work (to an extent recently) anti drug laws including tobacco and alcohol and the like.
I don’t get the point, you’re just saying facts about law which everyone knows.
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