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@JRGiger 409329 wrote:

Well maybe he just doesnt like anal.

nah he does –
she knew all about it –
hence me saying they both very secure in their sexuality –

however the word monogamous didnt seem to be in his dictionary when it was in hers

@JRGiger 409332 wrote:

Oh, I think I’ve been getting very confused.
Well that sucks for her I guess.

it did – it was so horrid to watch and support her going through it all

I think if you go into a relationship knowing and agreeing to it being ‘open’ thats all fair and well
I’ve a few friends who are into the whole swinging thing together and it seems to work for them – again another thing I wouldnt be up for

went to old windsor and battersea today –

was surprised that there wernt more cats to be honest,

fell in love with one really ugly/cute looking ginger but when we went to talk to the workers were told she has rather bad behavioural problems and had to be given up by her loving owners when they had a baby – and we were then asked the question about our plans for kids and had to say…. err – we’ve not really discussed this bit :laugh_at::laugh_at:
so we’ve decided to not consider her – as you never know what will happen in the future and it wouldnt be fair on her – esp knowing she has a history.

then there is a lovely little all black one – equally with some behavioural needs but we’re gonna have a good chat about it tonight – as hers seem manageable- and there is no need to rush into making any pressured decisions –
:bounce_fl:bounce_fl

@General Lighting 409422 wrote:

a few months ago Battersea said they were overrun with cats, have these all been rehomed?

I’m not sure if they’ve had to move some out as battersea have reopened 6 weeks ago and its spanking new inside,
both sites were incrediable impressive facilities and welcoming staff – battersea was actually shut due to the snow – but let us in

the catteries wernt all full, but quite a few cats were reserved awaiting collection, so I guess approx 20 or so at battersea and 12-15 old windsor actually availiable – some were unavailiable as had just come in and need some time for observation and vet check up.
but for some reason I was expecting hundreds! and being really overwhelmed by choice – and I wasnt

@General Lighting 409429 wrote:

perhaps cats get rehomed more quickly in London – they are popular pets across all sections of the multicultural community…. and a cute kitten or cat is much luckier at getting rehomed than a unfortunate staffy dumped out on the street by some chav…

yeh I think cats are much more independent and less restraining than dogs

(ie you can still go out all night and not worrry about not having walked it etc)

which influences alot of peoples decisions – certainly mine

well – we’ve decided not to go for the little black one –

its half korat – and they well fooking noisy = Marcus’s exhousemate has two and they wound us up with their ‘chatting’ :hopeless:

but theres 2 one ginger and one black and white or one so so cute white one with black ears that we’re looking to visit now :love: