TG hasabout the best idea TBH. obviously there is some connection there, as girls anywhere won’t just kiss a random boy for fear of being judged as sluts, but don’t forget the cultural differences.
These kids are American. Miami might be “cooler” than other areas but just like the coastal areas of the UK and Holland nightlife is only tolerated in otherwise deprived areas because the gangsters there begrudingly pay their taxes (history lesson:the same protestant puritans what were rife in NL and UK fucked off on boats in the 1700s to brutalise the natives and create what is the modern USA, and they still have real power in all 3 countries).
the impression I get is that behind any facade of “tolerance”, attitudes to sex and dating aren’t far off the conservative Asian / Islamic countries and even the permissive society in Europe is taking a hammering with the economic depression. its stil way better than the USA but for how much longer I do not know.
anyway worth meeting up with her straight if both of you decide you want to go further. Not only does it stop the embarassing problem the Brit lads warned of, if you both meet up when sober and it goes further than kissing its definitely 100% informed consent.
Also, you can then check that she is over whatever the age of consent is in your country (probaly 30 in some states :laugh_at:). OK seriously though I happen to look way younger than I actually am and have had girls in their mid teens come on to me at raves. Anything more than kissing and it would be prison for me, in the scum wing too, and yet it would be the safest place as the bad publicity would probably take down my employers and 150 peoples jobs in the middle of a economic depression, I couldn’t blame them if they wanted me dead or to suffer for destroying their job as well for one impulsive act, I’d feel the same if a colleague fucked up similarly.
There are about 10-15 acquaintance rape reports in Suffolk Constabulary area alone. Usually about one every month About half are actual assaults, half are where the girl decided halfway through the bloke was a minger and dobbed him in (unfortunately this does happen). I’ve no idea why its way more common here than in metpol or Thames Valley. there is a very famous festival called Latitude which is aimed at posh middle class kids and their families (I likened it to a big sixth form disco but with your teachers attending). There have been 3 rape cases at this, one false allegation, one still under investigation, one unsolved and becoming cold case. It costs near $200 a ticket, and is supposed to attract a “better class of person” yet stil is plagued by these unpleasant incidents. the cops find it hard to cope with, as they are overwhelmed by this and a culture of violence at night time events, and make screwups like busting the wrong man and wrecking his life (as their details are reported), or not investigating properly women who are genuine victims.
for both genders it is a bad world out there and whilst it shouldn’t stop you having fun, best not to take chances.
