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April 12, 2013 at 1:09 pm

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Deez

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But yeah life change.. recently i just been feeling like a BOSS.
April 12, 2013 at 1:17 pm

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Izbeckistan

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@DeezNuts 539959 wrote:

This is wrong brother. This is what most men think, you gotta be ballsy and go in there. Just because she is hot, she is still a human being. Most guys would probably have that mindset, thus these women don’t actually get hit on as much as you would think and it shows you’re a confident badass motherfucker who doesn’t care when you do go there.

Seriously don’t let a girls hotness deter you, treat them all the same and then it will just become natural to you whether they are fugly or incredibly hot.

Quite a few of my female mates go to the gym and they definitely do get ‘hit on’ alot….I imagine this gets irksome when yoy are trying to work out. I spose you just got to talk to them as regular people as Dezz says…and go from there. Just be aware of whether or not they are in the mood for chatting or not.
April 12, 2013 at 1:23 pm

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Lshak

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@Izbeckistan 539853 wrote:

Have you ever considered spirituality outside of organized religion ?

Yes I have actively and probably had an unhealthy obsessive relationship for 4 years with spirituality and other concepts such as Buddhism. But now I find no interest in it
April 12, 2013 at 1:26 pm

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Lshak

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@korno 539857 wrote:

Very important point, i personally feel like men give up too quickly (sometimes a girl can just play the chase for a while) And sometimes the guy although trying, hasn’t made their motives clear enough to the girl, we can sometimes just think the guy is a friend when in actual fact he’s chasing you.

Very good point, and barrettone also, I started up a convo with a girl rotting off the train today, walked to work together she works right next to me, had a nice chat but she has a boyfriend, I don’t like to jump into thins anyways, would rather just be friends first of just friends and nothing more. Seems like she was worried what her boyfriend might think though. Never mind 🙂

I’ve always had the point of making it clear enough in the past, now I’m just so confident with women, even random people on the street, when things are natural its so much better.
April 12, 2013 at 1:27 pm

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Lshak

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@barrettone 539863 wrote:

Yeah you have to kind of communicate your feelings in a clear way (but usually not too direct, though that can work sometimes.) You just have to like…leave hints. Be flirty and stuff. Invite her out to places and make the move. You have to act reasonably quickly because if it becomes a drawn out affair even if she’s interested in you she’ll think you’re not really and then it will be too late, or she will lose interest.

With regards to your trainer, why not, go for it. Remember that unless you’ve cultivated a friendship relationship beforehand, the worst thing she can do is say no.

True man wi give her a text next week, and see how it goes, she seemed interested asking me what I was upto on the weekend, and further questions she never asked anyone else, maybe that was just because I was talking to her more as a friend than a trainer like everyone else though
April 12, 2013 at 1:30 pm

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Lshak

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Great advice my man deezy and ikz!

thats exactly why I don’t because they probably get annoyed and I don’t like messing about in the gym either.

its not a confidence issue its that issue ^, but you know what… When I go gym today, I will start a few conversations up with a few girls and see how it goes, to be honest I can imagine it beig a really good place to meet girls, since I know I’ll always run into em again so no need to rush for the number/close.. 🙂
April 12, 2013 at 1:53 pm

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Lshak

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@korno 539865 wrote:

Lshak, don’t you wonder that psychedelics did you a bit of a favour? Reason being – Most people talk about some sort of clarity after psychedelic experiences, some pieces of the puzzle in their life started fitting, your clarity being your religion and bringing out the real you.
Doesn’t matter what it is, so your clarity was your religion (which not everybody agrees with, but whatever hey)
Don’t ya think psychedelics can take any credit for this massive change within you?

Definitely! I thank them that I went through a few months of complete and utter fear and paranoia to come out so much better a person on the other side! I do always tell people this, because without them I could’ve still been confused and unsure about why I am even alive. I was never depressed just though, what the hell was the point of me and us all being here

Like pat quoted – “I can see clearly now the rain has gone” psychedelics helped me find the bright and shining sun 🙂
April 13, 2013 at 7:04 am

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MR207

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I totally agree with you about girls not respecting themselves. Girls these days are looking to get attention, usually it’s the wrong attention. They dress a certain way because they know it will get guys to like them, when in reality, guys only like them for their bodies. It’s a shame that girls with amazing personalities are resorting to this because people never get to see that side of them. I think life is all about experimenting. If you like a girl, test the waters a little bit to see if she’s into you. If you’re getting good vibes from her, then you should go for it and ask her out to something harmless. I feel like most guys are hesitant because they are afraid, and women can sense that, so it’s definitely better to be straight forward and show her that you are serious yet laid back and friendly. You have to just be confident and go for it, or somebody else will snatch her right from underneath you.
April 13, 2013 at 12:57 pm

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Pat McDonald

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@MR207 540170 wrote:

You have to just be confident and go for it, or somebody else will snatch her right from underneath you.

Well… if the lady’s up for a bit of group, I don’t mind sharing her snatch. So long as it’s safe adult fun.
April 13, 2013 at 5:14 pm

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Lshak

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@MR207 540170 wrote:

I totally agree with you about girls not respecting themselves. Girls these days are looking to get attention, usually it’s the wrong attention. They dress a certain way because they know it will get guys to like them, when in reality, guys only like them for their bodies. It’s a shame that girls with amazing personalities are resorting to this because people never get to see that side of them. I think life is all about experimenting. If you like a girl, test the waters a little bit to see if she’s into you. If you’re getting good vibes from her, then you should go for it and ask her out to something harmless. I feel like most guys are hesitant because they are afraid, and women can sense that, so it’s definitely better to be straight forward and show her that you are serious yet laid back and friendly. You have to just be confident and go for it, or somebody else will snatch her right from underneath you.

So so true, if I see a girl wearing exposing herself, like walking around tights, I don’t care if I’ve been told she is perfect, I won’t go near her. Too much exposure, I don’t want to walk around with my girlfriend with her ass and knickers visible and seeing guys staring at parts of her body which shouldn’t be hanging out.
Don’t get me wrong, guys looking a girl in with makes me think ‘yeahhh she’s all mine’ but when they are peeving that’s another story …

Yeah you should definitely test the waters, if I go out on a date and she wants to sleep with me too early I would probably drop her out, where as when I was younger I’d go out with like 5 girls a week and because they DIDNT put out I’d drop em out, it’s so bad… Even though i did want a relationship… Stupid immature me, I’m glad I didn’t sleep around though and wasn’t a man slag.

Definitely, I hate it when girls don’t make the effort either, I get out off SO EASILY too… Well used to anyways, not sure about now.. Hate it when girls make me chase them, granted they do it to make the guy like them more and fall for them, but I get bored of chasing. Would rather develop a relationship from a friendship, which I think is hard now, if I ask a girl out for a coffee they just assume all I want to do is get them in bed …

And regarding pat – I used to want the same, but now that really doesn’t appeal to me, I wouldn’t even want a one night stand anymore ..! How life has changed for me ehh? I feel so out of place in society LOL
April 13, 2013 at 5:16 pm

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Lshak

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My spelling has been so bad recently lool! So much editing posts! Ill blame autospell/correction 😉 lol
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