@p0ly 441799 wrote:
guy i know drank himself to death on his wifes 6th year death anniversary yesterday, yeah maybe he should have been stronger but no ones perfect and maybe if someone had given him some support at a time in need (not saying they didn’t because i don’t know) this sort of thing could be avoided more often.
Its hard to be strong when you cant see any point, plus the way drink makes you feel when you wake up in the morning makes it almost impossible to get out, and he probably drove his mates away as exessive drinking makes you intolerable to be around, it aint about blame or fault, just some of us end up this way yet never seen it coming, and their usually really nice people, its not bad karma just choices that got out of hand.Sorry for your friend, i’ve lost a couple and would be long gone myself but i didnt have the belly for it plus it used to get me down and i’d go into my shell after 3-4 days. Also i always made sure i ate breakfast spend 2-3 hours walking around then join up with the lads again, one of whom, a cousin, has been sedated for years now, kept trying to kill himself
