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  • General Lighting wrote:
    I find this attitude quite shocking TBH….

    If it is not an excessive burden on the NHS then people should be able to have whatever treatment they choose – its as if society is trying to to say you must have children!

    Blokes also seem to get it nowadays, even hippies and liberal-minded people I know say “why don’t you settle down with someone and have kids?” as if I must do this before I am 40….

    I have made a concious decision that I do not want to bring any children into this world. I simply do not have the time, job security, patience or responsibility to do so and it would be unfair on the children to be an inadequate father to them.

    Lots of my friends have children; fair play to them but I think there are plenty enough already in this world.

    When I go to the city there are plenty of full prams and buggies being pushed around.. I don’t think Reading is going to suffer from population depletion just because I don’t want to have kids!

    If I want to help the next generation become better people I could become a youth worker or help charities look after kids in other countries – but not everyone wants to become a mum or dad and I feel that society should respect that choice….

    I know it’s amazing isn’t it. The coil costs probably 10p – the pill however costs loads – a pill every month for years and years. Hmmm wonder who wins – of course it’s the huge pharmaceutical cos with greedy shareholders to pay.

    Women lose – all over the world. I really think what happens in schools is a crime these days – my classmates & me were given no option other that TAMPAX tampons (saleswomen came to our sex ed classes to push these products) and the pill was portrayed as the only modern sensible choice.

    I cannot express how angry I am about this lie. The coil is so cheap and easy and safe and unobtrusive – it is a criminal and deceitful act for schools to promote the pill. The pill must cost the NHS millions and it is EVIL RUBBISH. Imagine tampering with fundamental hormones which determine who and what you are. It’s a disgrace.

    If I had daughters I would never allow them to take this hideous mind control pill.

    I just started the pill, although I had no intention of doing so…
    I went to see my GP and asked for all the info. then decided I wanted the injection or coil, but he insisted I choose the pill WTF!?
    I argued that I didnt want to with valid reasons and yet he just said its the best option for anyone my age…

    Also my mate was on the pill, but wanted to have injections instead but they wouldn’t allow her to because she didn’t have any extreme reason too….

    Amelia wrote:
    I just started the pill, although I had no intention of doing so…
    I went to see my GP and asked for all the info. then decided I wanted the injection or coil, but he insisted I choose the pill WTF!?
    I argued that I didnt want to with valid reasons and yet he just said its the best option for anyone my age…

    Also my mate was on the pill, but wanted to have injections instead but they wouldn’t allow her to because she didn’t have any extreme reason too….

    a few friends/relatives work in the NHS (including GPs, qualified nurses and emergency medical personnel) I had a chat with them about this situation.
    It happens because its a short-term financial gain and the NHS is under-resourced partly due to our Government blowing money on wars etc but also due to social problems overstressing it.

    your GP has to make a decision of the best treatment for the individual balanced against cost to the NHS/GIG and available resources in the area.

    However, in many cases part of the decision has already been made for them by NHS management and central Government; NHS frontline staff are constantly being asked to drive down costs and more expensive treatment options are “simply not available”. Wales is classed as an “expensive high-maintenance area” for healthcare costs (have a look at the news or Assembly debates and you will see!) The money just isn’t there – London is going to spend it on bombing people in Iraq instead because thats what Middle England wants.

    the contraceptive pills are the cheapest resource to deliver. Injections may be still classed as experimental treatment and not available in all areas; and they need nurses to deliver them – the same nurses who are also worked off their arses giving out flu jab (and in rural areas people are getting paranoid about bird flu).

    The coil as a device implanted into the human body requires skilled staff and in many areas a hospital admission (or follow up visits), which costs more money and takes up more resources than just handing out a packet of pills. I do not know the demographics (population) of S Wales that well but would expect there are a lot of young ladies in their late teens who require reproductive health services…

    Most hospitals are overstretched because they are filled up with old people receiving long-term treatment – and also younger people who are there because of often completely avoidable incidents such as violence leading to serious injury, or RTCs caused by excessive speed and lack of attention to road conditions.

    You’ve also got a fair number of young (and not so young) people presenting to health care facilities (with a variety of physical and mental health problems) because of their over-use of recreational drugs – this takes up more resources and also hardens the attitudes of the NHS staff, even when the staff are often the same ages as the patients!

    So perfectly blameless people like yourself and your friends are being given less effective treatment because others such as your local violent chavs are over-burdening the NHS – further, staff there are becoming demoralised and case-hardened by what they see every day and the caring professions are ceasing to care (and starting to control)

    There is also an element of social control of girls/womens bodies – gender equality is no better than it was 20/30 years ago.

    Its not right and not fair, but its British Society today..

    Dunno if the attached leaflet may help BTW


      Staff

      Give me one of those pills..

      Have a bad taste in men..:crazy_fre

      Maybe ill improve..

      hahaha

      oh i stopped taking them a while ago cause they made my blood pressure go up and i kept getting really bad headaches and stuff… but tomorro im going back to the doc because i talked to my aunt after spending the week with her on holiday (who’s a social worker near Luton somewhere) and she said that my anxiety isnt actually normal so i’ve got to take some medication before it becomes too serious… seems odd though ive been like this for aslong as i can remember but i assumed i was just shy and really bad at talking face to face or on the phone etc …well i guess it does all make sence as ive repeatidly not done or mist out on a lot of things because i’d worry about it to much (going to places on my own, participating in allsorts, making conversation with people without seeming completley bonkers) anyway it’ll be interesting to see if they work… sorry that was a bit random *and in the wrong place* but i thought i ought to explain myself to anyone that knows me from here :bigsmile: or that might.. one day:crazy_fre

      Amelia wrote:
      hahaha

      oh i stopped taking them a while ago cause they made my blood pressure go up and i kept getting really bad headaches and stuff… but tomorro im going back to the doc because i talked to my aunt after spending the week with her on holiday (who’s a social worker near Luton somewhere) and she said that my anxiety isnt actually normal so i’ve got to take some medication before it becomes too serious… seems odd though ive been like this for aslong as i can remember but i assumed i was just shy and really bad at talking face to face or on the phone etc …well i guess it does all make sence as ive repeatidly not done or mist out on a lot of things because i’d worry about it to much (going to places on my own, participating in allsorts, making conversation with people without seeming completley bonkers) anyway it’ll be interesting to see if they work… sorry that was a bit random *and in the wrong place* but i thought i ought to explain myself to anyone that knows me from here :bigsmile: or that might.. one day:crazy_fre

      do you have trouble on the phone because your attention drifts away from the conversation and you lose track of it?

      umm well with people i know i do that a lot, but i cant answer my house phone (which really gets on my dads nervs cause they’re normally quite important calls for him) cause i get really worried and paniky about what im going to say, if i wont understand what they’re saying or dont know an answer to a question etc or if they’re one of those annoying survay/merchandise selling type calls :scared: and i cant call people i know or house phones without worring that they might be busy/have someone else in the house answer/not want to talk to me or that ill feel silly or forgett what im going to say..

      The pill is evil, evil I tell thee……….was on it for about 10 years and it sent me mental (without realising what was sending me mental).

      I can’t see that the injection would be any better….possibly worse.

      When my ex and I split up I stopped taking it and suddenly I started feeling normal and happy etc etc.

      I went to the Drs last year to ask about alternatives – I had the coil in mind and they weren’t happy about me having it at all and came up with loads of ‘reasons’ that I shouldn’t have it – the main one being that I haven’t had kids. I couldn’t be arsed to argue, I’ll stick to the rubbers for now, but I’m never taking any hormonal contraceptives again.


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        Have tried the same..But i believe it was because i splitt up whit my former boyfriend i was happy..??

        No, I’m not entirely convinced although it may have been part of it…….I went on the pill again at the end of last year with my current b/f and it sent me mental again.


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          Well i cant say that is why for sure…Havent been on the pill since..

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