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Love him for his mind not his looks.
@cynthiaortiz 476717 wrote:
Love him for his mind not his looks.
could you love a chronic burn victim?
i’d like to think i could but i honestly don’t think i could handle it… it’s a shame really i’m not that great.
There are many forms of love remember, but for a relationship to work there has to be sexual chemistry otherwise its merely friendship.
As wonderful as a person maybe you can’t make yourself attracted to them…but that fine.
I suggest you make yourself available to someone else who you fancy, have good sex and make something of it 🙂
If you are not physically attracted to him what the hell are you doing with him?
Attraction is a big part of human sexual behaviour. Desire helps substantiate the pair-bonding instinct.
You shouldn’t try to change people, you don’t have the right.
I have been seeing a guy for seven months now. He is a nice guy — probably the nicest guy I ever dated — very caring, respectful and treats me like a lady (brings me flowers unexpectedly, watches horror movies even though he doesn’t like them). Before him, I dated guys who were unavailable or just with me for all the wrong reasons. I started dating him four months a break-up with a guy I was madly in love with and I still think of him.
I couldn’t stop laughing reading your post…the bit where you say you get grossed out by his body, it’s hilarious (lol). I’ve never been in a situation where I’ve liked the guy but not his body…I guess, him having bullimia and all but there’s no excuse for him not to work off the chubby bits. there’s not much you can really do because you can’t force yourself to like his body. Try in a subtle manner to make him join a gym and see if that works…
@Chrispydelic 490696 wrote:
If you are not physically attracted to him what the hell are you doing with him?
Attraction is a big part of human sexual behaviour. Desire helps substantiate the pair-bonding instinct.
You shouldn’t try to change people, you don’t have the right.
And THAT is why that’s the last comment. Clearly the best answer 🙂
nice post for young generation. thanks
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If you really need sex with your partner then tell him because without any discussion you don’t enjoy your sexual life.
I love guy for manually.but i don’t sex with any guy….
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Hey!!! You shouldn’t try to change people, you don’t have the right. If you really love him then don’t think about his body, love him for his mind not his look.
I say if you really like him give him a chance you never know till you try it make work out and he might the man of your dreams, hey since your woman could you give me some advice on my thread please don’t judge me tho each to there own and all that jut keep an open mind because i genuinely do need advice or I don’t know anyway I hope it all works out for you and your partner
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