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      David and Gillian March
      Suicide Helper Walks Free

      Updated: 12:32, Thursday October 19, 2006

      A man who helped his sick wife to commit suicide has walked free from court with a nine-month suspended prison sentence.
      David March, 57, had pleaded guilty at a previous hearing to aiding and abetting the suicide of Gillian, who had multiple sclerosis.
      The court heard that Mrs March, 59, of Caterham, Surrey, had tried to kill herself on a number of occasions because of her health.
      The court was told that he returned home to find Mrs March in a wheelchair, having taken Valium and with a plastic bag over her head.
      He admitted to police that he tightened a string around the bag and she died half an hour after he arrived.
      Passing sentence at the Old Bailey, Judge Brian Barker told March: “You were a husband who not only had a deep love for his wife but who displayed a selfless devotion to her.
      “Society may understand your acts but cannot condone them.”
      Outside court, March said: “I just want to be left alone to get on with my life.”
      He had originally been charged with murder but his plea to the lesser offence was accepted after a pathologist said it was not certain that Mrs March would have survived if he had not tightened the string.
      The sentence was welcomed by the pressure group Dignity In Dying.
      But the British Council of Disabled People said: “What kind of message is this sending out to society where it is perceived to be easier to kill a disabled person rather than support them to live with dignity?”

      Should he go free ??

      I did start writing somthing about this,but the more i thought about it and what they both must of gone through i had to stop.My answers yes,what he had to go through(and will be for the rest of his days) is punishment enough.
      I made that decision on the presumtion that she was depressed,no longer wanted to live and hadn’t done for a long time.

      This is a difficult area to debate on,

      I think it is hard to make an informed decision with that little information –

      had they had conversations about assisted suicide previously, why had she ‘failed’ in her previous attempts? was it because she changed her mind and sought help in time, did she know her husband was due home and think he may find her and seek medical attention? was she depressed or in a fit enough mental state to make a clear decision, was it planned or impulsive? as all these factors are left out of the report,

      I personally agree with a persons right to choose, as long as they are mentally well enough to make an informed and concentual decision,

      I think if it was an agreed ‘plan’ and that she was aware he would help her, I doubt prison would ‘rehabilitate’ or ‘punish’ him any more than he porb is (with out his wife) already

      Its such a tough one not having watched my lifelong partner fade before my eyes to be able to comment really ………………..
      as I’m not sure if I would be able to ‘assist’, not sure if I strong enough :hopeless:

      although he hasn’t gone to prison, he’s not exactly gone unpunished..

      He would still have done up to 36 hours in police cells, been bailed multiple times (going back in cells each time) with the risk of a murder charge hanging over him and cops initially thinking he killed her after a domestic, not a nice situation for an old man like him to be in..

      He now has a serious criminal record of violence and greater risk of mental health issues which will affect him getting work or even some pension/insurance policies (if he’s not retired already his employer may decide to “let him go” because of the adverse publicity). Many countries would not give him a visa because of the seriousness of this offence.

      Details such as his home address will have been published in the local press – he will have to run the gauntlet of being stalked by both reporters and probably local youth gangs looking for an “excuse” to bully someone.

      His wifes family may also threaten him – And if he defends himself “too robustly” he will be nicked and could go straight to jail.

      TBH I don’t reckon he will be alive much longer, as this level of stress isn’t good for his health. Its not really “getting away with it” TBH…


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        Its not really “getting away with it”

        This is not a question about what he faces outside of jail,or about him getting away with it or not.I’m sure that his life arent going to be easy from now on..

        The question is if he should go to jail or not..

        Have he comitted a crime ???

        Angel wrote:
        Its not really “getting away with it”

        This is not a question about what he faces outside of jail,or about him getting away with it or not.I’m sure that his life arent going to be easy from now on..

        The question is if he should go to jail or not..

        Have he comitted a crime ???

        In the eyes of the law he has committed a “crime” (and has been charged as such) but in my view its not as serious as murder – I don’t think he has commited “crime” any more than I think drug users commit “crime”.

        I tend to go by morals rather than laws and in this case I don’t think he’s been immoral…

        There is no history of violence shown between the couple and she had made a number of previous attempts to end her life; there is also a diary in her handwriting claiming this which is a big piece of evidence.

        Clearly she wouldn’t have done this if she were totally happy with her life; there are plenty of seriously ill people who try to squeeze out every last day of their existence.

        My Dad was seriously ill from kidney failure and died 6 years ago; he wanted to stay with his family and live for as long as he could; but if at any point he had wanted to end his life I would have helped him do so and even risked prison if need be.

        I have also told my family that if I become seriously ill or disabled such as through injuries sustained a road traffic collision I do not want to hang on and be a burden to them and Britains public health service, and would take whatever action necessary to end my life painlessly.

        As I do not have children or a long-term partner at the moment depending on me I feel I have the right to make this decision.

        But I see why such an incident initially has to be investigated as a crime as otherwise there would be a lot of people who would kill elderly relatives or even partners to get at their money claiming it was “assisted suicide”, or there could easily be “cleansing” of disabled people from countries which has happened before in Europe.

        For laws to be changed the situation where this is legal in other European countries must be studied, and perhaps the same law implemented in all EU countries.

        Angel wrote:
        The question is if he should go to jail or not..

        Have he comitted a crime ???

        those are seperate questions

        like GL said ‘in the eyes of the law’ he has committed a crime but
        from my point of view he should not go to jail


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          globalloon wrote:
          those are seperate questions

          :flowers:

          in my opinion the only thing he is guilty of is loving his wife, wen u love sum1 they cum b4 u everytime, he helped his wife regardless of the backlash he knew wud b commin. MS is a very distructive and vicious disease for which treatment is obscenly expensive, i hav seen the impact it has first hand and believ that, if (and its a very important if) it was what his wife wanted this is an act that shud b comended not condemed and i dont think he’s commited a crime nor shud he go to prison, he’s servin time already ……..must b devestated:hopeless:
          xXx

          If what I have read is to be believed then he has committed no crime in my eyes,He is guilty of nothing but loving his wife,and as others have said surely being without her must be punishment enough.

          I don’t think he should go to jail – he is already serving a life sentence:hopeless::hopeless:

          I think it is appaling that we treat our pets with more compassion than our fellow humans – if I had a terminal illness with no quality of life and no hope of recovery I would like to have the option to ask to be put to sleep:hopeless: or for my family to be able to allow me to die if I was on life support with no hope of recovery.

          Protective systems to prevent coercion could easily be put in place and allow an end to the undignified sufferings of those for whom their desire to live is no longer enough to outweigh their suffering.

          :hopeless::hopeless::hopeless::hopeless:

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