Party Vibe

I think its a bit more complex than that…

@Deezl 508023 wrote:

Hello everyone, hope your all doing fine on this lovely friday evening
I just wanted to pass on my advice for getting happy and remaining that way..

First of all think positive about everything, it may be hard at first but soon it just becomes habit. This is really good because when you see the best of every situation. This has made me such a happier person its crazy.
Second, be confident in yourself. Before i was confident i had social anxiety and was basically a recluse. Now that i’m a confident motherfucker, i get random girls eying me up playing with their hair etc. etc. which also makes me feel much better as a result!
Third is, healthy diet. Despite what you think, eating those crisps really aren’t doing you any good. After 3-4 days of eating healthy as a motherfucker, my energy levels are doubled as well as with my happiness levels. You can also take multivitamins etc. aswell if you please, which do help. I take 1000mg cod liver oil daily 😀
Also exercise a lot, you will feel a lot better. If you work out a lot too and get a nice physique this will also boost your confidence!

i think u may be onto a winner here

and so young too… well done 🙂

Dont believe the hype, high expectations from media & adverts make young people believe they can do and have everything, of course thats impossible, society is a triangle which relies on many poor workers at the bottom to support the few wealthy at the top, the odds of getting to the top are insanely high and for the vast majority believing you will get their is just setting yourself up for disappointment, same goes for relationships, no one is perfect, we are all flawed and if you want people to accept your flaws you must accept theirs too, their is no ‘the one’ single person who you need to find, just the many potentials you could be happy with if you settle with them, work at it and stop shopping around for someone better, prettier, wealthier etc

I think the happiest people are those that accept their lot at an early age, work hard, play harder, enjoy what they have instead of coveting what others have.

Well of course, when you see those kind of people that sit there pointing out other peoples flaws and laughing about it and things and they generally don’t have much nice things to say like ” oh yeah i know so&so, he’s a prick. When in actual fact so&so isn’t a prick really but then you begin to realize that that persons attitudes towards others is only a reflection of himself in that his personality is bouncing off others and he thinks they’re the asshole.
I like you’re advice Deezl, i personally think you’re pretty spot on about the excersise and healthy eating as being from Aus i have a gold star in all a that and living in britain for many years got into an unhealthy lifestyle ( in comparison) i have experienced my happiness & mental health from one extreme to another in my time.
Of course other factors apply as if you’re going through an aweful rough time in life you can’t expect these things to make you happy. But in general it does apply and a happy healthy state of mind will also make you deal with lifes issues better.

@know_hope 508144 wrote:

i want to go to one of those laughing classes on lsd, bit off topic but there u go

Never heard of those but really you dont, I remember being in hysterics on acid, serious uncontrollable laughter at nothing to a point near convulsions. Laughter is great but when you cant stop for a couple of hours it’s kinda scary and both my jaw & abdomen ached for days afterwards.

@know_hope 508154 wrote:

lol, savvydravvy laughed for at least the 1st half of a night when he took lsd… 2nd half was impressing the ladies by walking backwards on the dancefloor with a cheeky grin :laugh_at:

Kinda off topic as I dont think acid is any way the key to happiness, but effects vary wildly and I cant remember which ones did which, had laughing fits on some, had the ‘thinking you understand the universe’ bits on some, and the missions where we walking to the top of Caerphilly mountain on it ( being freaked out in the forestry commission on the way ). But the only time I went dancing on it was Time Flies and I dont think I danced as such, more just moved and tried to be part of the laser show lol

Anyways back on topic, laughing is an important part of happiness but acid is not a fun way to laugh, well it is at first, then it gets unpleasant

“The problem, often not discovered until late in life, is that when you look for things in life like love, meaning, motivation, it implies they are sitting behind a tree or under a rock. The most successful people in life recognize, that in life they create their own love, they manufacture their own meaning, they generate their own motivation.
For me, I am driven by two main philosophies, know more today about the world than I knew yesterday. And lessen the suffering of others. You’d be surprised how far that gets you.”

Says more than I ever could on the matter.