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@General Lighting 409346 wrote:

thats a definition of prudence you don’t normally find in accountancy textbooks :laugh_at:

A MUM-TO-BE whose lies wasted hundreds of hours of police time has been jailed for crying rape.

:hopeless: people who cry rape make me sick – for all of those who have been and are too scared to testify

…………….and I know a lot of us will occasionaly put ourselves in vulnerable situations with our lifestyle but it still doesnt justify someone raping you – or taking advantage of one of our basic human rights of consent…

and this includes men! as the incidents of this happening to men are increasing – or men reporting it is increasing

@General Lighting 409354 wrote:

Its unfortunately the darkside of the “night time economy” as are the false allegations, particulary round here (I’m only 10 miles away from Essex) – hardly surprising the authorities are taking the “blunt instrument approach” and knocking back venues licenses..

some people really need their heads knocking together –

if they knew the real horror of this to a real victim and the impact it has on the ‘wrongly allegded’ perpetrators family / career / friends etc

its horrific –

I have also seen what its done to some one wrongly accused and it really fucks up your life and potential future trust in relationships

whilst your in it

and your lucky if you can pull it together enough to trust others enough to be able to put yourself in a vulnerable position to have another relationship

(sorry I’ll try and stop ranting now )

@General Lighting 409356 wrote:

When I do go out I am on guard to such a extent people ask me if I’m “OK” or “actually enjoying myself” as I refuse to drop my inhibitions (as I can do a fuckload of booze and drugs and still keep my self control) – but its a survival mechanism, not anything negative…

snap –
I manage to appear relaxed and happy but always have this in the back of my mind and am hyper vigilant (and this may have a lot to do with the physical and mental violence I have experienced at work too)

as I also have put myself in alot of vulnerable positions when young in my social life and thankfully have come out unscathed

I’m sure you can understand the things I have heard (and then 100 it )

in my old line of work – it doesnt bear imaginable that this shit is so prevalent!!

and often by family or ‘friends’

and having had family members go through this is too close to home also!

it is worrying – as two of the girls drugged was by their local bar man (ops their house) and he mentioned my bros name etc so they thought they were safe to accept a drink off him – one went home ill and cant remember the other collapsed in the street and was found by a stanger thankfully – and the guy went home to the pub that night and packed his stuff and left despite having another 3 months on the contract….. go figure

@Tank Girl 409352 wrote:

unfortunatley the real thing happens all too often –

I know a lot of girls (family and friends) who have actually been raped,

Most defenatly, I did not mean to suggest or imply that anything other than a tiny minority of people are making up such things. More just that the media seems to be reporting them more at the moment (they do so like to jump on those bandwaggons)

I has wrecked more lives around me than I can count tbh. Its a fucking cruel world sometimes, largely due to its population.

@Tank Girl 409579 wrote:

hey hon, I didnt think that all :love:

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