Party Vibe

Hi,
I’m a 34 year old wife, i have been married for 10 years. Last year my husband talked me into chatting with other men online. It was for fun and to add some spice to our bed time. About 5 months ago i started chatting with a gentleman that is 54. It is turning into much more and my husband is telling me to go along with it.

I’m not sure i should be doing this

I konw, it is so much to take in, I am torn between wanting, needing and having it wreck my marriage.

What started out as fun for me and my husband in our bedroom has turned into so much more. I find myself wanting my husband to go to bed at night so i can get online to with my friend.

Yes i am

When you say you just have sdtrong sexual feelings for him, do you still have the same for your husband or is that gone? Also Do you still love your husband?

If you still love him why don’t you talk to him? He seems to have talked you into this maybe, maybe you could talk him into caring a bit more?

Very difficult situation. Sounds like the worst part is that it now comes down to you to make a decision about what to do, could well end up that if you don’t tell your husband the way things are going the 1st he’ll know is when you leave him for the other bloke.